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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Husbands having the best of both worlds without nobody knowning

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OPs Own Title" okay i have this friend that i meet from college (lets call him bob). While my question is we have been friends for about 2years now, and when i meet him he was about to get married but however would still try to get with me on the side. So one day out the blue ... (152 words)

Relationship/long distance advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

3 June 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I met a guy online on a chat site, we have been chatting for ages on both msn and skype. I really like him and he's told me he likes me too. He calls me baby, has nicknames for me, is sympaethic when i've had a bad day, pops on just to say hi and see if i'm ok and makes me... (198 words)

Does my boyfriend care more about drink than he does me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's drinking is getting out of hand and we already been thru enough. Well i have. Engaged moved in and now back at mine minus the ring. Had tough time with the fact slept with an ex which is recent. So now this has added to problems. Tells me loves me and wants ... (156 words)

What do you do with a man you've been there for way before he becomes successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, I am on a break from my boyfriend of 5 years. In the beginning things were great. Our love could be a feature film. We were facing hard times but always had each other to lean on. We went from friends, to best friends, to boyfriend and girlfriend. He'd fre... (679 words)

It's over... but I have to move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have so much love for my boyfriend, but the past 3-4 years living together, I've been too controlling, and i think he's been keeping it in. The past few days, he asked me to break up with him while I still love him with all my heart and didn't expect him to end this ... (571 words)

Still under my mom's apron strings at 27...

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and live at home with my parents. I recently split up with my girlfriend of three years. The relationship had been secret for two out of the three years. The first year my parents were aware of my GF but they did not know that she had children. I told my ... (436 words)

Should I tell or keep my mouth shut???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck and i just dont know what to do... i have two options and both seem to be the right thing to do... Basically i had my final uni exams last week, well in the last exam (which was the hardest) on friday some girls from my class decided to wear headscarfs, now ... (235 words)

I know what we did was wrong, but I cannot control who I love.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm hurting so bad, i dont know what to do!!!! I'm married with twins, but my marriage is a disaster and have wanted to get out but just dont know how to go about it. We've been married for 15 years but he has let me down big time. He has borrowed thousand from me, loans i... (939 words)

Why did this girl ignore me when I tried to ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a very shy girl in school and she knows I like her and up until a few hours ago I thought she liked me. She had all the textbook signs of a shy girl with a crush on me and she never showed any signs of disinterest. So I thought I'd ask her out at the end of school at ... (307 words)

Should I go on the pill to be safe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for a little while, we haven't had sex and don't plan to for quite some time! (I'm really not ready for that...) We have done everything else though. I read somewhere that you can get pregnant by sperm on fingers etc so I was wondering whether I should go ... (70 words)

Was it something I said???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this friend who I love hanging out with. He's nice and funny and an all around good guy! we used to hang out all the time but now the most he does is say hi... if I say hi first. I dont know what happened! I dont think I did anything to hurt him! what happened? ... (60 words)

Help! I don't know where we stand...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyyy (: ok, so there's this boy i really like, and we admitted we liked each other quite a while back now, and ever since then we've been acting pretty much like we're going out. because we go to different schools, i don't see him that often, but when i do see him, wh... (331 words)

How can I get over my "Romeo and Juliet" situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice, preferrably from someone that understands Asian culture. I am a 21 year old female Asian American. I met my boyfriend in graduate school and felt instant chemistry despite our different backgrounds. I grew up in a quaint suburb in the United States, while he is ... (638 words)

Is it true that if a woman confides in you as a friend for a long time, your chances with her romantically are shot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M) age 41-50 - Is it true that if a woman confides in you as a friend for a long time, your chances with her romantically are shot? That's what some guys told me. I've never really believed in silly rules like that though. A friend and I were interested in each other back when ... (280 words)

A boy wrote in my yearbook that "in all sincerity I have never admired anyone more than you in my life" but he only wants to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A boy wrote in my yearbook that "in all sincerity I have never admired anyone more than you in my life" but he only wants to be friends! I've really liked him since the day I met him. I've always felt really shy and awkward around him but I'm really comfortable with other gu... (200 words)

Too devoted???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend says that I am "too devoted". Not exactly sure what that means. What is the best way to behave as a boyfriend?... (26 words)

How can I confront and grass on my teacher for sleeping with my friend

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3 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Help I think my friend is sleeping with a teacher, I feel responsible about doing something but I'm not sure what... I'm not just blindly accusing one of my teachers of sleeping with a pupil I really think they are because... 1)I know she has a stupid SGC on him 2) I know h... (226 words)

Dating a narcissistic man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age - I've been dating a narcissistic man and have broke it off he is pursuing a women that is half his age and doesn't want a relationship with him. He still sends me e-mails like It was good to see you, you are like a bar to a recovering alcoholic. I have to see him at work and is ... (62 words)

Please please help ....should I be jealous or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" Hello I have been with my bf for a year an 6months an hes decided he wants to go to the air force ill miss him but i support his decision..but now I'm mad because now he says hes enlisting with some girl so they can get stationed in riverside..he claims shes his ... (183 words)

He was flirting with a girl he had a sexual past with, Do I have the right to be annoyed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend accused me of flirting with his best friend which caused a big argument but then even after we made up he was acting weird and erased all of his messages and call log. i then logged into his facebook a couple of days later and saw he had been flirting with a girl ... (117 words)

Something is missing in our marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupid, I have been married for 14 years and past few years have been very stressful and I am not happy in my marriage. It has gone to a point that my husband and me are complete strangers in the house. I went on a trip last week and met a guy who showed some interest in... (145 words)

Married and miserable and still in love with my ex wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - so i have been married to my second wife for about a year now. i was 27 and she was 21 before we were married she was responsible and had some self respect and respected me but immediately after our marriage she quit her job without notification put on about sixty pounds and ... (226 words)

If you take a week off the pill and bleed, will you get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, Just wondering. Am on the pill but i wondered if when you take your week break can you bleed but still be pregnant? Thanks... (32 words)

He wants to be a swinger, I don't. Will he respect that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I live together and there is talk about marriage. He plans to propose by the end of the year. But there is one concern I have... often ... every time he drinks he brings up to me how much he would love to swing, have sex with a prostitute, go to a sex resort, ... (268 words)

Husband's online activity frustrates me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F) age - My husband keep getting emails,from his past,, including pictures etc. Sometimes he hides them from me, and not even showing it to share it. I mean past ,like 25 years ago...I got really frustrated,because he delighted the email he got last time, and he said ,he doesn't think ... (149 words)

Dating for a week and I'm jealous already! Did they flirt or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been going out with this guy for like a week now and we really like each other but at lunch i just felt like my best friend or close to it was flirting with him and she came on facebook talking bout him and asked for his number. im probably just being paranoid but i just ... (60 words)

The new guy is perfect, so why can't I get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been getting friendly with a guy (man 1) since March. We've got to the stage now where we act like we're a couple, but we aren't going out.. and have done everything apart from sex, which he would like to do. I'm friendly with his family, and he is with mine, and we're ... (535 words)

I'm married, but now I want to have my fun with strangers. 3 down and counting, should I feel guilty?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here is my situation I have been married with my husband 5 years, I was a virgin when he took me, he had his fun before me. But just recently I started this appetite of having sex with other guys just to try it out. is that normal? should i feel guilty? I have been wit... (98 words)

Cheating and "forgetful" boyfriend goes away on a guys vacation. Can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has just gone on holiday with his friends.. We were having a few problems but we sorted it all out before he left. I love him so much and I'd hate for us to have left it on a bad note. He's been away with his mates before and I should be used to it by now, but f... (280 words)

My friend's ex made a pass at me. Do I get involved or run away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My story is like this. Before this, i was in a college, i havev lot of friends there. Then, i moved to a better college, this college is where one of my friend (not my best friend but she is really nice) boyfriend’s college. My friends ask me to look after her bf here. I don’t ... (232 words)

He wants to make space for me in his cupboard. What does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27 we have been dating for 3months :) and we still so inlove. On saturday he told me that he is going to make space for me in his cupboard for when i sleep over. Can someone please tell me if there is any meaning behind this ? Thanx so much ... (63 words)

Older boyfriend lives next door, I'm cheating on him and want out. But will he make a scene?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. We have a 17 year age difference. I'm almost 27 and he just turned 44. I used to be turned on by him at one time. My bf has a good heart and he means well. He has good qualities and that's what I love about him. But the bad outw... (351 words)

My wife's sexual past has made me lose respect for her.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age - cant seem to stop thinking about my wifes past past sexual history.In1972I met my wife New Years Eve in an Old Boys Rugby Club we kissed the new year in although she told she had kissed 80 others that night.To cut a long story short that evening I went down on her and we ... (241 words)

She broke up with my friend because she didn't want a relationship. Can I make a go for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy :) i'd like your advice guys, i know it's long so persevere! and thanks for any comments... I've known this girl since just before christmas and i've always thought she was really pretty and everyone know's she is. I then found out she went out with one of my now closest ... (263 words)

I sent him facebook pokes, but he didn't poke me back! Did he loose interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive liked this guy for a while and , I've wanted to talk to him but I'm extremely shy ( the type of shy that can't be overcome by repeating mantras, Ive been there done that. And there's no difference at all) Well I decided to take baby steps -so I poked him on faceboo... (294 words)

Do I orgasm or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a query! actually im confused and shy about it. and it ay sound like im stupid bt i have to clarify. iv a bf from 5 yrs. we have sex once a week or so, but the thing is i dont know if i have orgasms. i cnt find out. i lubricate and often a little slimy thing be there ... (121 words)

I'm referred to as the "place holder" until the ex wants my bf back! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. My best friend is my ex, and his best friend is his ex. Things between me and my ex are completely over, and there is nothing but friendship there. I thought the same thing for my boyfriend and his ex, but since we started ... (185 words)

I cheated on my husband and don't know who is the father of my daughter!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, please someone help me!!! I've been married for 4 years now and been with my husband for 10 years. We have a 2 year old son and now a 3 week old daughter. The problem is, I'm not sure if ou daughter is my husbands baby?? I had cheated on my husband August 15 and 16, my ... (112 words)

He said he likes me, but friends say he doesn't! Do I get back together with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i told the guy i liked that i liked him, but at the same time i was getting over him. he didnt listen and the next day he asked me out. while we were going out we barely acted like a couple, only hugging. and when i accidently held his hand he told me to let go. then later he ... (198 words)

I'm 14 and pregnant, and my father has cancer! Do I still tell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 and pregnant i dont know what to do, my mom dont know and my dad is in the hospital because he has cancer and he dont know too i dont wanna up set them because my sister did last year because she got pregnant at 17 year old. im scared so im thinking about not having... (173 words)

Should I say goodbye to my long distance lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. So far it has been a little strange as we both live in different countries in europe. Me in London and he in Holland. But we have managed to keep it going. When we are together things are absolutely perfect and he's lovely. But it ... (198 words)

My husband wants to keep both his family and his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age - my husband has an affair my daughter discovered her father's affair through his cell phone. my husband felt guilty but he wanted to keep both his family and his gf. he promised me his gf won't be his mistress and that his family is always his number one priority. my... (86 words)

Is this normal for someone my age?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and a few weeks ago while I masturbating, I somehow managed to squirt, about 6 times and it wasn't intense like my friends say it was. I'm a virgin too. I'm just wondering if this is normal and can you squirt at any age?... ... (48 words)

I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, i also had to watch my mam go ... (433 words)

Is this pain in my vagina due to a long period of inactivity?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I had sex really few times in my life and with one person, my current bf.I am 20, I lost my virginity last year and since we have been together like 6 times and it all happened recently, like in less than a month, so my question is about this pain I usually wake ... (101 words)

We never kiss any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and the last couple of years of our relationship we NEVER KISS! I personally like kissing and believe it is a crucial part of being intimate and affectionate in a relationship. I have confronted him about it and he says he just doesnt ... (231 words)

What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really likes me, what happens if he t... (83 words)

Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me feel like I couldn't trust ... (291 words)

Should I meet up with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i contacted my ex boyfriend. I wanted answer to why he had hurt me in the past. We had a relationship that started off great and then suddnely one day he just turnd and was horrible to me, he left me at a party with loads of people i didn't know and a girl who thoro... (425 words)

Does size really matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age - Hi my new parter in life was married for 25 years to a very nice guy. for many reasons her marrage broke down like mine. we met almost 2 years ago on on the very first night we made love it was a disaster. the main reason was she was, what i thought that wet and hornie she c... (267 words)

Should I believe him that he will leave his wife for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i am divorced and currently dating my first boyfriend. We met a year ago.......he is still married and also says i must give him some time to sort out certain issues then he will file for divorce. He has sorted out some of the issues...now i need to know will he sort out the ... (117 words)

I regret my two affairs but now one of the other women is pregnant, and the other is blackmailing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help.... I know what I did is wrong and I even lost weight and lost appetite due to guilt and regret. I am married and doing a job that requires high moral values private or public and I am a well known leader in my community and the city. I cheated on my wife with... (175 words)

Are women dating guys for money? To look good?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey ! im just wondering are women all the same ? heres my story ive dated this girl for about a year . im not the richest person don't make the best wages . the ex was a big spender loved to eat out fancy places , designer clothes , bags, everything u name it . she a spoil ... (228 words)

Will these obsessive thoughts about his "friend" leave me in time???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend/best friend for almost a decade. I'm absolutely crazy about him and I know he loves me just as much. Last year, while I was exceptionally busy studying, he became closer to a friend of his. He was going through a hard time and was ... (999 words)

My past is affecting my thoughts about my future... please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a shy person. I rarely go outside because I get nervous around other people. I have been diagnosed with avoidant personality, and borderline as well as an eating disorder. I am a virgin sort of. When I was a child my older foster brother made me preform f... (409 words)

Sexual urges... should I give in to them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 been saving my virginity for the right guy who has yet to make an appearance in my life. Now it's got to a point where I just really want to have sex. I feel like I am missing out on something great. Should I wait or just go for it with a one night stand? he... (71 words)

Does it sound as if there is a chance for us to be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age - I have been seeing this guy for nearly 2 years, he tells me that he wants to be with me and cares very deeply for me. He calls me 3 times a day and texts me too. His marriage is over, there is no sex or intimacy in the relationship, his wife told my sister this. I am separated ... (86 words)

Girlfriend woke up one morning and told me she didn't love me any more...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf of nearly 1 year, one day woke up an said i dont love you any more, i dont feel anything . i loss feelings for you. its hard letting her go i love her so much its very devastating and shocking to hear those words. were not the prefect couple we argue but we always make it ... (498 words)

He doesn't want to advance in his life...

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am finishing college and my boyfriend dropped out, i asked him when he is going back he told me that he does not know, that he needs a steady work schedule, which i think is a load of crap, he works from 10pm to 6.30 am that is a lot of time and he says that it is not that he ... (146 words)

All I've ever done is stand by him but I cant take any more of his behaviour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years now, he is a bit controlling if i ever say im going out for a bit he will accuse me of cheating on him, so in the end i end up not going out, it has now come to the stage that i will not feel comfortable going out with out him ... (247 words)

My boyfriend wont do anything in bed for me because he says I am too wet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im really worried because while in bed with my boyfriend i will play about with him by giving him a handjob and i will give him a blowjob and he wont do anything for me i try to drop hints like saying what do i get and he says sex, i spoke to him the other day and he was like i ... (129 words)

Should you always tell someone if you've lied?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Should you always tell someone if you lie to them, even if it's a tiny lie? And you were both drunk? Because they might not even rememberr so why if I am just bringing it up again??... (37 words)

Is it common amongst guys to share their sex stories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to have opinion on guy who will describe to his friends how he had sex during his one night stands, and also how he first made love with his girlfriend. Is a guy even serious if he describes how he n his girlfriend have sex? Or is sharing such things very common ... (57 words)

Dating questions from a confused teen.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I went to the movies with a friend who I have known since Kindergarten (we're in 8th now). I've liked her for a long while but never really told. Feelings were probably mutual for all this time... anyways. The theatre was rather empty, around 10 or more people not including us. ... (520 words)

Why did he kiss me like this when we are just friends, plus he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently split up with my longterm boyfriend after a whole heap of problems. We are still friends and spend time together (by time I do mean exactly that i.e. cinema, food out, but nothing more). Whilst we were going through the tough months I ended up confiding in a male ... (299 words)

I am to embarresed to ask my boyfriend to give me oral, I have never experienced it before.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity to my boyfriend who i have been going out with 8 months. however he will not give me oral in the bedroom, he has told me he isn't against it, he just doesn't want to. i give him oral, and he does pleasure me in other ways, but not all the time. i have never ... (97 words)

I keep dreaming of a male celebrity!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! For over the past week or so I keep dreaming about a certain male celebrity. One night I dreamt that he was going to have sex with me, the next he was sitting in my house and on another occasion, he was walking along the beach with his wife. His wife is also a celebrity ... (166 words)

Really in love with my ex-boyfriend's brother...could it work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've read other posts similar to this but have not found a clear answer to my question. I'm completely in love with my ex's brother, what should I do? I believe, you can't help who you love and I think it's only natural for me to be attracted to both brothers, especially ... (198 words)

Why does a man in a happy committed relationship go for regular one night stands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my current boyfriend has cheated on his previous gfs. I'm not sure whether he has or will cheat on me. One of his ex refuse to have sex and to blow him due to the believe of keeping her virginity. And he told his friend that another ex is bad in sex. Why does a man in a ... (99 words)

Boyfriend of 4months- is he being cautious or am I just a passing lover to him?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - am i over reacting? me and my boyfriend of 4 months were talking one night when we had both been drinking and it got round to marriage and kids. He already has 2 children by another woman he was with for years. He said he is glad that I am not the sort of woman that wants... (513 words)

Guy-friend seems interested, but I'm not..do I let him know?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've a close friend. He's quite nice to everyone, but I've been told that he likes me. I have no idea whether it's true since he has never told me directly, but my friends have said that this seems to be the case. He offers to help with my duties for a club, and he asked me ... (196 words)

Boyfriend abuse me, I took steps to get away but I still miss him so much!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I had been living with my boyfriend for about eight months and everything was going great and i moved in with him and his family really took me in considering i wasn't close with my parents they really became my family and everything was great, but then he started ... (242 words)

Cousin's ex husband & I have an attraction..how do I get away from this!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the situation, I have a cousin who has a child with her now exhusband, they're back together and living in the same house...Anyway, we're all about the same age and my cousin is not a very close cousin of mine. Her ex husband is definitely a flirtacious man. And not bad ... (286 words)

Is his looking at other women a sign?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is about jealousy with my partner. It arised when i noticed that he is looking around in other women. But just looking around..Could it be warrysome about the future? I will give an example. We work in the same building and were having a coffee near the window o... (125 words)

Is it possible to be attracted to someone but not find them attractive?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound strange but here goes. Is it possible to be attracted to someone but not find them attractive? I am attracted to my boyfriend, I love to talk to him, spend time with him, and he turns me on. But I don't think he's attractive/beautiful...I wouldn'... (162 words)

What does it mean if he calls me baby now

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - does it mean anything if a guy switches from calling me babe to calling me baby? Ive been talking to this guy for a couple of months but neither of us have talked about a relationship. We see each other when we can. At first he started calling me babe but i was usually the one ... (86 words)

Is this all our relationship is going to be?

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3 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am in a long distance relationship with someone who lives in a different country to me. We met online, and haven’t yet met each other. We have been talking for about a year now, and we get on well. We have feelings for each other, and have made it “official” that we are in a ... (411 words)

Pressured to make the decision

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm going to try and and simplify this story as much as possible however, it is going to be quite a long read. I'm 21 years old at the moment and I have had only one girlfriend my entire life. We were in a relationship for 6.5 years. Amazingly enough the relationship has... (903 words)

Are we rushing it?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years of age and i'm dating a guy who's ten years older than me. We know each other for a year through the internet. Yet we webcam and talk to each other nearly everyday. We love each other greatly...I mean seriously greatly. Should I be worried about my family accepting ... (76 words)

Hubbie came on to my friend

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3 June 2010 (F)

age - the other night my husband was very drunk and made sexual innuendos to my best friend, he states that he remembers none of the conversation but she told me what he said and it sickens me. What do i do?... (40 words)

I want to know what's going on inside his head

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3 June 2010 (F)

- I have seemed to have fallen for one of my closet friends. We haven't been friends for long just under two years. We met when i started my current job as we work together and the first time i saw him i was like "wow" he's not the most stunning guy but we seem to click. He ... (146 words)

Never even asked a girl out...

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old male about to graduate high school. I feel like my high school experience has had a ton of accomplishments, except for my nightmarish junior year, but there's one thing I never could bring myself to do: ask a girl out. Now, don't think I'm some gynophobic,... (149 words)

What should I do, or can I do anything to finally get the woman I am crazy about??

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys for the past year i have been interested in this woman, we had been flirting around each other for ages and both of us really liked each other but never said it. So i decided to write to her and i told her how much i liked her and wanted to be with her, but after ... (240 words)

My family doesn't love me

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My family doesn't love me. My parents don't care if I sink or swim. They love my younger sister more and don't tell that it isn't true. I know because I've lived with this for years. I have some determination but when I see that they careless what happens to me I feel ... (90 words)

How can I make my parents see that even though I'm pregnant I still deserve the wedding of my dreams?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, DearCupid, and thanks for reading. Well, I am 22 years old and my boyfriend and I recently discovered that we are having a baby. We are excited about this idea and plan to stay together and raise our baby together and frankly the just-me-and-him side of things is great. ... (280 words)

One night stand question

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I drunkenly got with this guy and had sex with him about a month ago say? not sure of the timescale. We already made out once before, and both made it clear we wanted each other. When we bumped into each other again we ended up going back to my flat in a horny frenzy. ... (218 words)

Bitter relationship with my ex make me wary

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got out of a 5 year relationship with a man i cared deeply for. It ended because I could no longer take the abuse, cheating and disregard for anything that didn't effect him personally. When he cheated she got pregnant. she just moved in and they are now expecting ... (110 words)

The dating seems promising, except for Facebook

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I started dating this guy a few months ago, really attractive, hardworking, smart man. He owns his own business that runs out of 2 states so I see him only 2 weeks out of the month....I recently came across a Facebook page with a pic of him and a girl and she claims to ... (135 words)

Teenage question about vaginal discharge

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so this is embarresing, yeesss, but. in my cum, discharge, whatever you want to call it, I often have somewhat "chunky" stuff. it's embarresing, so how do I get rid of this so it's all just like water? how do you make it smell like nothing? how do you make it not taste bad ... (61 words)

I don't want to come between them but I don't want to lose my friend

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right , I'm starting to get really annoyed with my best friends girlfriend. She's never liked me. I haven't known ,well lets call him A , i haven't known him for that long , and he is the nicest guy and we clicked straight away. He is in loads of my classes at school i always ... (547 words)

Is it materialistic of me to give him an ultimatum?

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3 June 2010 (?) age 51-59 - If his excuse for not moving forward is because he cannot afford a ring, what do I do? Isn't it materialistic of me to give him an ultimatum in this case? If he says he cannot afford a ring, I would not totally believe him because of other things I know. He hates c... (100 words)

What do I do with a person I thought I knew?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OPs Own Title" I am 33 years old and I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. I love this guy, but I know it's a very unhealthy situation. His mood changes daily. One day I am the best thing that happened to him and then next I am full of faults. We got engaged a ... (222 words)

Should I date an army guy?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just met a guy from the army...we met in ny we had a good time for four days then he had to go back to iraq. We been talking everyday he seems like a nice guy but of course I still got to get to know him. He invited me to the ball when he don't with iraq.the ball is in ... (129 words)

The guy I like is my dad's age! How do I tell my parents?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay… I’ll try to make a long story (kind of) short here. I am 17, turning 18 in several months, and I’m a girl. There’s this guy I had a crush on from the time I was 14. He is 30 years older than me. I saw him on a regular basis for a couple of years (he wasn’t a teacher, just ... (523 words)

I'm starting to hate my own family!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For years, two of my relatives have relentlessly interrogated me about school and my personal life in general, to the point of literally cornering me. Their only motive is to get me to buckle under the pressure and prove they're right in thinking there's something wrong with ... (206 words)

I'm scared I could be pregnant!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About two weeks after my last period, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex multiple times and I ended up taking the morning after pill. It has now been about six weeks since my last period and I'm thinking I could be pregnant. I haven't had any morning sickness but I have had ... (86 words)

My boyfriend is annoying! What do I do?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my bf is kinda childish. I mean he pokes me when he wants me to pay attention to him, and he hangs on em somtimes. He follows me around even if it causes him trouble. Hes like an annoying parasite sometimes. When i try to say something he gets this depressed "i'm sowwy" ... (148 words)

I hacked his Facebook and found out that he's cheating! Do I tell my friend?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right I'm such a bad person i know but i used to like this guy , recently i found out hes being hacking onto my facebook :/ bad so i thought right im gonna do it to him , i got his password off someone and i know this is bad but i was reading his emails . see he was dating one ... (170 words)

I love him but he left me because of a compatibility test!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I need help. I am so confused. I have been dating this man for 10 mths. We met on match.com. We have had a great time together. Now he is questioning out compatability long term. He says I'm a wonderful person, good looking, kind, caring, I clean, cook, every man's dream but ... (247 words)

I was crushed by my crush!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I like my best friend's cousin, and i thought he liked me to. My friend seid she was pretty sure he did and then his friend texted me and seid that he thought my crush liked me back. After that 2 of my crush's friends asked me if i liked him and i just kinda blew them ... (192 words)

He's shy around me! What does he want?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - what does this guy want? there is a guy where i work at about 4 months ago started acting different around me before he was outgoing but now he is shy around me. He talks to everyone including girls but will not talk to me except when we are alone. I do not know if his reas... (191 words)

He says I'm a good friend but I love him!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I ask him if he likes me the I like him and he said idk but I am a good friend what does that mean? And what should I do I am really good friends with him and can't stop thinking about if.... (45 words)

I love him but he's being distant!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm in a relation with a sweet man he's 27 years old i'm 24 years. any how we've knowing each other almost 6 month ,i feel safe and secure with him all the time except that the last period of time or lets say the last 2 weeks he's been changed. he's not the one i know, he ... (510 words)

It's been 5 months but I can't stop thinking about her!

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Apologies for the length of this. I met this girl a month ago on a medical course in Nottingham. We met on the first day, and over the four days we got on so so well, everything clicked, our personalities, our interests, our jokes and she was perfect. I decided to see i... (1440 words)

Help! I want to break up but I think he might be the one!

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys so I have been in a relationship for 5 years. The constant problems that we are having and have had in the past I feel are going to end us. Logically it is the right move to end the relationship but deep down inside I have this nagging feeling that he is the one. We get ... (145 words)

He put it in me, am I still a virgin?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well tonight me and my boyfriend were fooling around and we decided to try do IT for the first time, i was a virgin he wasnt, well anyways he only put it in a bit but it really hurt soo i told him to stop, my question is am i still a virgin?, im kinda hoping i am because ... (84 words)

I think she is "the one" but money troubles are in the way

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question as to what to do with or i guess i should say how to handle a situation that has come up in my relationship. The basics, i met her 6 months ago and it has been the best 6 months of my life, i love her more than i thought i could love someone. She has... (294 words)

What do I do about a boy who I like that acts like he likes me but has a girlfriend?

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3 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's suggested title* Dear Cupid, I have a huge crush on a boy in my school. We use to be normal friend a few talks here and there. But now we hang out in our classes all the time. I sent him a flirty facebook message one time saying he should text me and he did. And we text... (370 words)

Can a girl like you after saying I think we should be friends?

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own Title" Do you think its a possibility that a Girl who wants to be just friends. After being friends for long while hanging out and all that stuff that makes her more comfortable around you. That she can like you again? I mean I guess you can say true relation... (333 words)

What can we do to stop the itching?

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3 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my sex life here lately is non existent .Because my girl is experiencing itching problems in and around her vagina .My question is what can we do to stop the itching .Doctors just don't seem to help her they keep saying all kinds of different things but really just do not know. ... (56 words)