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Against abortion but can't parent a child right now!

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Question - (15 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i would like to let everyone know that i'm not 13-15 but im unable to change it on my profile, i am 21.

i am 6 pregnant by my ex. we were together for 2 years and when i told him about the pregnancy he said he didnt love me anymore. he has been both emotionally and physically abusive to me these months. we are now living in different countries. he has not contacted me in more than 2 months. he says he wants the baby to himself and doesnt want to see me ever again. i'm only 21, starting my career and i dont have a job right now, i want to put my baby up for adoption because i believe its best for the baby and me. this man has psychological issues, uses drugs, has a porn addiction and at the age of 26 has never had a job. I dont want to give him the baby because i dont consider him father material, after all he left me suddenly- he is not trustworthy!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010):

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yeah well he wont know, but i just want to do the right thing you know? i can do the adoption without his signature

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010):

Can you hire a lawyer there? If so, you need to get one and get his professional advice on how to avoid him getting the baby and how to give the baby up for adoption discreetly.

Also, how will he know if you give the baby up if he is in another country?

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