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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm losing my wife to her "work" family

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25 June 2010 (M)

age - my wife is a CNA and works for a sick man with a family and she is emotionaly attached to his family to the point of going to the movies,dinner, shopping she is in denial im loosing her please help ... (40 words)

Why is sex sometimes magical and other times just no good?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why iz our sex sometimes magical and other times just no good - when he wants it, its amazing but he never wants it when i do. sometimes i feel like he's not attracted to me but other times i can see in his eyes how bad he wants me????????? its driving me crazy... (54 words)

How much do you have to have in common with your partner to stay married

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We’ve been married for almost 6 years and have been together for 9 years. I was really young(19) when we met. And now I’m realising that we are SO different and I know marriage is all about comprising and we do that as much as we can. But how much compromise is needed to keep a ... (424 words)

Why is my ex starting to kiss me on the mouth?

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25 June 2010 (?)

- My ex has started to kiss me on the lips when saying bye after not doing anything so personal since our divorce 2 years ago but then doesnt contact me - whats going on? He's still with the ow he went off with almost the minute i left him.......... (50 words)

Excessive masturbation?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: OP's title] Hello, I have a problem with masturbation. I do it really often and I get turned on pretty easily. I am not sure of this healthy. Could you please tell me how many times per week is fine, health-wise? Any doctors around here?... (51 words)

Had a miscarriage at 14 now I long to be pregnant again...

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and im 14 years old. i was really scared about the pregnancy but came round to the idea and accepted it. and now i have strong sense of longing to pregnant people and young babies and want to get pregnant again. i dont want people to say im too ... (87 words)

My sister always embarrasses me in front of my family!

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25 June 2010 (?) age 41-50 - My sister always has to tell embarrassing stories about me when we have family events. One time I had my friends over and forgot to open the flue on the fireplace. (My parents came home and managed to open it up, so everything was fine.) But then on Christmas Eve, my sister ... (260 words)

I sacrifice everything for her, but she constantly lies and hurts me

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25 June 2010 (M)

age - here is the problem. I am in a relationship with a younger woman who has a problem telling the truth, has done stuff behind my back while I was at work, constantly flirts with other men, has pill and alcohol issues and comes from abusive previous relationship. She also is an ... (342 words)

We're best friends, and we like the same guy. What should we do?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OP's title] My friend likes the same guy I do, but she has a boyfriend. She is thinking about dumping him, but the guy we both like found out she likes him, and now ignores her most of the time. Another friend of mine asked him out for me, and he still jokes around w... (115 words)

How do I let my teacher know I like him before school ends?

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25 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - there is but one day of school left, and that will be the last time I see my crush. I would have enjoyed telling him my feelings, but he happens to be my teacher. We have always had amazing conversations, and he always tells me about his day. He always tells me that he admires ... (121 words)

Am I setting myself up to fail?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All Bit of a strange one this! I met a guy online about 3 months ago, and we met up in town for lunch, we spent the afternoon in town, then he text me that night, said he had a good time etc. I called him and arranged the next date, we met at night and went for some di... (432 words)

Why didn't he answer my letter or phone calls?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was 17 I began an epistolary relationship with a man (he was 24 at the time). We met under strange circumstances and we instantly liked each other. We wrote to each other constantly. He traveled around a lot and was never in one place for long. This relationship went on ... (207 words)

Help please: Girlfriend Broke up with me!

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25 June 2010 (M)

age - i have been in a relation ship for nearly 4 years,to the women of my dreams in everway.at first my partner kept finishing with me because of bad past relationships, she did not want to upset her daughters and only wanted to be there for them, and no happiness for he... (614 words)

Is 12 years too big an age gap?

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25 June 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hey, I'm 22 and worrying about the age gap between my boyfriend and I. He's twelve years older than me and we've been friends since I was nineteen - I met him at 'work' if you can call it that (I play pro sport) - and we've been together for a year and a half and everything is ... (158 words)

Boyfriend wants permission to have sex with another woman

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance of 6 yrs now told me recently that he wants to have sex with another woman. he'd prefer it with me and 'her' but he'd take 'her' solo also. he explained that its not because i'm lousy in bed but because he's just bored. I know I'm not great in bed but I'm torn in two ... (86 words)

In a relationship with a stripper who lies constantly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age - [Mod note: OP's title] what should i do about the relationship (over 1 year) with a woman who has constantly flirted with other men, lies over and over and is an exotic dancer? She says she loves me but I have caught her in so many lies it is staggering. She gave up the stri... (198 words)

How do I make a G-spot orgasm happen?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend, it starts feeling really good and I get the feeling almost as if I have to pee. I heard this is the step before have a g-spot orgasm, and I was wondering how I could get it to that?... (46 words)

Tired of not being allowed to date!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all, my mum has been very hard to deal with lately. Every few months or so i am asked out, but under her rules I'm not allowed until Sophomore year of High School. I've become upset because every guy that asks me out tells his other friends that i'm "not allowed." It makes ... (74 words)

Sex Stings Me But Not Her

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [Mod note: OP original title] Sometimes when I have sex with my girlfriend it stings in the head of my penis but it does not sting her. When I pull out the stinging stops and it does not sting when I pee. This does not happen every time either. She does not feel the stinging... (191 words)

He'll never love me but I can't get him off my mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - What do I do? Ive asked questons, and all they say is give up, but I cant. I love him so much, it hurts to be away from him, not to be able to hold him. Hes horrible to me, and is mean to me and shouts at me and takes the mick out of me but I love him, and all my friends say Im ... (114 words)

Is my girlfriend using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: OP original title] Hi, I am quite troubled with my relationship. I love her a lot and just her.. I have never tried to cheat on her and would just never do it. I am so sure of my love for her.. But thing is like that there are doubts in our relationship. I feel... (199 words)

He doesn't trust my male best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in this relationship for this guy for around 2 weeks now. he is the kind of guy that every girl wants to be with, the absolute macho man.teh bad boy, the kind of guy every girl wants. so he has a alot of girl "friends" which seems like a threat to me, butt im dealing ... (181 words)

Could I have lost my virginity and gotten pregnant at the same time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am 17 and i lost my virginity thursday like 3 in the morning in the pool and it didnt hurt at all, but, it was only in me for like 3 minutes and when he pushed me away i looked down , and he had nutted. im sooo scared idk anything about pregnancy? should i worry about ... (112 words)

Is the reason she wants space going to end us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend of four years told me she needed some space from me to fix some personal issues. She also told me that we need to work on our communication along with several other things. Nothing too major though. I noticed that she was acting different for about two weeks ... (459 words)

What are the chances of my girlfriend getting pregnant?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my girlfriend and I were messing around, and I ended up ejaculating. I wiped it off, but about 10 minutes later I stuck it in without a condom. I only stuck it in once the first time and took it out, but after i took it out there was precum on my penis so I cleaned it ... (93 words)

I'm afraid to have intercourse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and married for year and half. i am scared to have intercourse with my husband. he is a wonderful man and very patient and totally understands and i love him. i know it is not right to keep him waiting. also i surely want to have children one day. i try to ... (134 words)

Does he like me? If so, how do I get him to admit it?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if my bestfriend likes me?! All of my other friends says he does but I'm not sure. What are some signs that he does? How can I get him to admit it if he does?... (39 words)

Does bottoming out feel good?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a guy with an average length willie (about 6"), and I have only bottomed out once in a womans vagina, in a very petite girl. She seemed to really like it, but I have read that it is usually painful or uncomfortable. Maybe it's because I just barely did. I am curious if ... (109 words)

Are they working together or working each other?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 5 years and we have a daughter that just turned 4. I recently found out about a relationship that he has been having with another woman. He reposesses cars for a living so he is often out all night and all day long. This woman is a friend of a man that ... (644 words)

Online dating, does it really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, my girlfriend and I broke up about 8 months ago now. It was for the best, and while I've enjoyed my solitude again, I'm beginning to get lonely. The problem is, I'm not sure where to meet people. Sure there are the bars, but I would prefer to avoid them. I'm not ... (171 words)

He's leaving and I don't know what I'll do

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've worked with a guy for nearly a year. I've been there for him during a really rough patch and have helped him through all his work assessments etc. He always teases me and I'm so fond of him. He's now told me that due to a problem his daughter has he has to move teams. I'm ... (117 words)

She broke up with me and I'm devastated

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend broke up with me last night and I honestly don't know what to do...she was the only thing going right up untill now. I'm still in shock, we live pretty far away and she told me online that she didn't think it was working out but wanted to be friends! She says that ... (88 words)

He doesn't want to commit this year, but wants to be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - a guy says he likes me but does not want a relationship. He still wants to be single, but he said he wants me and he wants me to wait about a year or two for him.... ... (37 words)

My husband wants an open marriage, I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband after 7 years of marriage wants and open marriage meening he wants to ahve sex with other women and i CAN HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN IM NOT OK WITH THAT WHAT DO i DO?... (37 words)

I care about my boyfriend, But this other guy has my heart, help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK i feel kinda dumb for using this thing to figure out what i should do, so please help me. . . I'm 16 And i have been seeing this guy for 2 months. Let's call him (Rob) He's Sweet and makes me happy, But he's so immature. He's a year younger then me. He get's jealous fa... (283 words)

Had sex with another woman while on break. Should I tell her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, So me and my gf broke up about 3 months ago because of things that she was doing in our relationship that were setting us apart (talking to guys in the middle of the night, etc.). So we broke up. During the break I fell into this depression period where I was started ... (232 words)

Feeling insecure about the distance in a new relationship

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so worried. My boyfriend just graduated and started working. We're just three weeks into our relationship and he's now working 50 miles away. My problem: 1) He's been really busy and i know that he really is. He told me to text him whenever I want to and he'll read i... (166 words)

I broke up with her again, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex.. well, since I did the break-up, At the moment she is my ex. I didn't want it to end. Everything that just goes wrong in a day I blame everything around me and I tend to 'let go'.. I did that often with her and last time she told me she was sick of me doing that and it's ... (321 words)

Meeting with husband after separation, not sure how to handle it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age - I have been separated from y husband for 5 weeks now, due to his excess drinking. He has been working away and not been prepared to communicate. He has just called to say he has landed and we are meeting up tomorrow so i can pass on his mail etc. I was shocked at how snapp... (130 words)

Loves Me, But Not In-Love. No Explanation?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod Note: Op's Original Title] I've been going out with my, as of last night, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. Only two years in the age difference, but i think the maturity difference has a big gap. I've been in bad relationships and understand most pro... (283 words)

In love, but she's stuck with a controlling boyfriend!

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Here goes. I'm in love with this girl for 2 years who is in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. Her relationship is not healthy. She broke up with him many times but patched because he forced her to be with him. They quarrel frequently. While with him, she used to say she ... (186 words)

We broke up but still wanted to be friends, but his sister is getting in the way!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i broke up with my boyfriend a bout a week ago and we were fine and going to keep tlking to each other but his sister kept txting me saying he didnt want me so get over it and that he wanted nothing to do with me and to stop stalking him and called me a bitch! so i called ... (133 words)

Why don't I feel the same chemistry with him anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So theres that whole thing about chemestry with someone and how you can feel if its there or not right away on a date or upon meeting soomeone. Can that chemestry that was so great and immensly there just go away all of a sudden? For example me and my bf have been going out for ... (126 words)

Why is she angry that I told her she was easy, when she is?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So my girlfriend and I have a close mutual friend. She says she only fools/sleeps around with men if she potentailly sees them in a relationship. And she's had a few flings. So the other day she was wondering why this guy, whom she was seeing for a while, was all of the su... (268 words)

Why does he act so distant physically, even though he says he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 5 month tells me that he loves me all the times. However, he doesn't really show it. We are together at least 5-6 nights out of the week. He doesn't touch my breasts or grabs my buttocks. He caresses me and hugs me constantly, but we do not do foreplay. Even ... (132 words)

How can I tell him that I supported him by working as a prostitute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Our parents were physically,emotionally and verbally abusive to me and my younger brother, so when I was 18 I moved out and took him with me. In order to support me and him I worked as a prostitute but I told him I worked the night shift in a food processing factory. 4 years la... (138 words)

Should I stop drinking altogether?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i started drinking when i was about fifteen years old and drink pretty much ever weekend since... lately i has been seeming that i drink until i BLACK OUT and this is scary to me cause i cant remember anything...i can never just have a couple drinks i have to get completely ... (76 words)

How can I tell if my boyfriend's best friend has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys: Have any of you ever had feelings for your good friends girlfriend? If so how did you act towards her? Or if you knew someone who has, how did they act towards her? What are some signs i can look for to confirm that my boyfriends best friend may have feelings for me?... (55 words)

Why couldn’t he be there when I needed him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am 22 and he’s 23 we have recently found that we have a deep friendship that goes along with are relationship. Spent most of are time together or we did until last Saturday when I got really sick. All I wanted from ... (233 words)

Why is she so obsessed with my new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I have recently got into a really nice relationship with a lovely man. He is kind and gentle, and I am slowly starting to feel relaxed and happy. :o) My problem , however, is this. I have a very close female freind, and we have developed this sort of reliance on e... (475 words)

Does my husband have feelings for my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm worried my husband has a crush on my best friend. They have gotten really close over the past year and I'm wondering if he has a crush or if I'm just being paranoid. What are signs I should look for that show he may be interested in more than just friendship with her?... (56 words)

Am I right to be suspicious of her behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for over three years now but i have recently been having doubts. My girlfriend has always been quite friendly with other guys (being in a male dominated profession) and she is also quite flirty (friendly as she puts it!). An incident... (442 words)

How can I move forward and heal after this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been separated for a month and it will surely result in a divorce. I needed to leave because it just wasn't working out despite trying marriage counseling. I can't go back because there was abuse involved and he isn't accepting responsibility nor seeking ... (119 words)

I had a dream my boyfriend cheated and my emotions are driving him away!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a serious dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me with some chick. i've been suspisious but now its driving me crazy. what should i do he says i'm too emotional for him... (35 words)

I plan to move to America... but how do I to tell Mum and Dad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello reader i am 17 and i didn't stay at school or go to college i have regretted that as i haven't been able to fibd work. i am now thinking about going back to college and getting some education the thing is next year if i have enough money i would like to live... (144 words)

Is he using me until something better comes along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am divorced and living in a foreign country. I have been seeing a man for a while who I love but he does not love me back. How long should I wait? should I force the issue? Some of my friends think that he using me. He stays with me and hardly ever contributes to f... (265 words)

Should I wait 5 years to be with this older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy and he is 5 years older than me. my parents have forbedin me to talk toi him. I like him a SUPER LOT. and im not shure id i should wait like 2 years to be with him. i really want to but most people thinks it a bad idea. idk what to do. i really want to be with ... (67 words)

I'm the office Cinderella with no Fairy Godmother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I desperately need some career advice, or really just some reassurance that I shouldn't take this personally. Last year I studied to be a journo and excelled! I'm in my late 20's and before starting the course I'd been working in admin jobs for the past 10 year... (848 words)

My lifestyle of lying and partying is ruining my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) i am 16 years old and basically i dont know what to do anymore! about 6 months ago my dad died :( and since then i have been doing stranges things like: clubbing drinking weed once making my self sick and there was one big incident with a 22 year old boy who ha... (276 words)

I'm confused about who I am and what I want. I am angry and depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i suffer from depression. I was bullied a lot at school, and even though it was a long time ago, i still havent got over it. I'm also not sure what i want to do for a career. I also feel weird compared to other people in my age group. I think this is partly bec... (612 words)

It's like she likes me, but is too shy to be herself near me. How can I approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a feeling this shy girl I like a lot in high school likes me back but I'm a bit confused. Here are some things she does ( Sorry about the length) : 1. I catch her looking at me but she will quickly look away if I look her way and she acts embarassed. 2. If I say hi ... (850 words)

Why is he locking himself in the bathroom with his laptop?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and i have been together for over a year now. i thought everything was going fine. now he locks himself in the bathroom with his laptop. is he cheating or am i just paranoid?... (36 words)

I am friends with this family, but I am attracted to the husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this man for most of my life and we have always been close as friends, but lately I have started to feel as though it is more than friends. It feels very natural and normal when I am alone with him and my feelings for him are starting to grow and I know he feels ... (181 words)

He trades pictures with women and masterbates too often to be intimate with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age - my longtime boyfriend masterbates so often now it is getting in the way of our sex life, he is using porn to view other females and i have found pictures of him in the act on his computer, he said he did trade some with some ladies but never met any of them, do i trust him now ... (94 words)

Do any women have experience using a menstrual cup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi sorry if this is a bit explicit but I have a some questions about menstrual cups? I know that to put them in you have to fold them into the C shape but what confuses is me is how to take them out,on the diva website or lunnete or one of them it says to fold it back into the ... (145 words)

After four months, I am having trouble reading the writing on the wall!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, in a 4 month relationshsip, that basically has gone awall. Awall in the effect, that we both been stubborn towards one another. She wants it one way, and I want it the other way. We both have had a tough few weeks with our jobs. She is starting a new gig, so she is non ... (299 words)

Why do I lose interest after we've had sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so here I go. So I can really be into a girl, but then once I have sex with her, something kicks in and I lose interest. Its kind of like I find something that I dislike after we have been intimate. In most cases I wouldn't care, but its affecting the way interact with ... (87 words)

How often do you see your boyfriend or girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hate spending a whole day without my boyfriend. I hate the thought of going for a day without him and when he's gone I miss him so bad. Whatsmore is that with my exes I often used to go days on end without them and relied on msn but my current boyfriend I do see every ... (126 words)

Do I tell him that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to ask dat im nt a virgin, should i tell my boy friend about my secret b'coz we r planning to get married.Sometimes, i feel dat i should tell him the truth b'coz i feel embarrace dat i m not loyal to him.. Plz suggest me. Thanx..... (53 words)

Our daughter is 7 months old and he is doubling my workload!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does he have to make my life so difficult? It's just the little things but they add up and I end up feeling really frustrated. We have a seven month old daughter so I could do without the added stress. I probably sound like I'm whineing but I feel like crying because he ... (547 words)

Why won't he take the next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've finally gotten closer to my guy friend and flirting was so casual that I never noticed he was hinting at me, but he tells me he likes me and thats it. I don't understand him. He calls me babe, we can act like a couple, we constantly flirt, and we've been friends for a ... (180 words)

Is he only staying for the sake of the kids?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should i stay in this relationship? My partner and i have 2 children together and id say its always been a rough relatioship,although there has been some happy times. It started off as more of a fling than a relatioship, he would turn up now and then and he would end up staying ... (324 words)

Could he have fallen for me even though he is engaged?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a situation and somehow not sure how to go about dealing with it. Someone was recently employed where I work and had to assist him in a lot of things when it came to ensuring that he settled in. To my ignorance, he then started going out of his way and flirting ... (234 words)

I need fun, free, cheap date ideas that don't involve alcohol. Any ideas?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm tryin to get a list of ideas for fun free/cheap dates. playing video games, maybe cook together, goin to the beach, having dinner + movie night are pretty much the only things I can come up w/. I'm tryin to find something that doesnt involve alcohol. Although this guy and... (109 words)

Girlfriend frustrations - any way to fix these things?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am concerned about my Girlfriend, she seems quite unhappy with her life at the moment, and this refelcts a little on the expectations she has of me to make more money and manage my money better. the story is this: she comes home from work, moans about how her collea... (1438 words)

My best friend who I dated briefly wants me to move in with him despite having a girlfriend, and he has even said he wishes he could have both of us!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - EXTREMELY LONG BUT PLEASE READ I NEED HELP IM SO CONFUSED ! So I was literally dating my ex for less than a month he was my best friend of 3 years. I knew him like the palm of my hand and he knows everything about me. During our friendship he was dating this girl linnet (his... (1066 words)

Should I meet this younger girl I have met on Facebook?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I really like the sound of a girl that I saw on Facebook. We have been exchanging emails for a couple of weeks now. Should I meet this girl, she is younger than me? I'd really appreciate some tips from people, especially if they are just about to meet someone whom they 'met' ... (57 words)

Boy trouble!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 17 years old and I'm an idiot who's well in love with her idiotic best friend. *laughs* It sucks, I really don't know how long this 'confession' will be, but I have to tell it and see if anyone here can help this idiot! *laughs* and i mean me, I'm the idiot. Alright ... (498 words)

I cant handle my dad's drinking anymore! What can I do?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I honestly dont know where to start, so i'll just go for it. My father drinks about 6-7 cans of lager every night. I'm kind of over that now though, it's just what he does. But 3 days ago his 20something friends came over (my dads 41) and they suggested drinking games ... (191 words)

What are his motives for behaving this way? I feel so hurt!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are on a break right now, because he was questioning the relationship, due to his own self issues. I am sure the relationship will end after our break, as he has hurt and lied to me a lot since we started having troubles. We aren't speaking, but I heard that ... (95 words)

Making decisions about the future..

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever felt deeply regretful of a decision you made in the past? For example, you get rid of A, thinking that B is better and you can gain it. However, after you leave A, you fail to get B too. And now you miss your good times in A and wish that you had stayed there ... (143 words)

I want my ex back but I don't know how to go about it!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would have been with my boyfriend for four years, this June, except we broke up at the end of March. We were great together and were close with each other's families. He is someone I can say I truly love and am not sure I will ever get over. About a year and a half ago, we ... (476 words)

She only seems to love me because we have sex!

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 17, and I'm dating this girl. She is the same age as me, and we have been dating for almost a year. The first time we had sex, we had been dating for about two and a half months. We had sex quite a bit for the following months (almost every week). Now we have slowed ... (231 words)

I'm 10 weeks pregnant but I don't feel anything towards this baby...why?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Im wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar. I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now, and everything is perfect with us. I know we're meant to be together. And although it wasn't planned, I found out I pregnant. I'm now 10 weeks gone and at ... (151 words)

Shd I wait for him for three months...or will his feelings change whilst he is away?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. My boyfriend and i broke up after 11 months together. He is going away for almost 3 months and said he didnt think things would work, that he hates himself for not making me happy and he thinks breaking up is the best option. He wont tell me he doesnt love me anymore though ... (178 words)

Anal sex straight into my mouth--will I get sick?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So embarressing but I have to know... My boyfriend and I were drunk and had anal and in the heat of the moment I sucked his dick straight out of my bum. I don't want to get sick. Should I take any medication or precautions? Don't worry, I don't plan on doing this again.... (55 words)

He won't talk about his feelings...and I don't know what to do!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy and we really got close really fast.. He would always tell me how much he loves me and how he wanted to be with me always and said stuff like that. the only thing is that if something is bothering him or any kind of feeling he's feeling he WON'T talk about it. i'm ... (172 words)

How do I tell this girl I like her before I leave to go to high school and not see her again for 2 years?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So i am in the 8 grade and well we had two school dances and i went and i met my friends there and after most of them left i hanged out with my cousins they are in the 7 grade, and their friend was there and she was very pretty and well i had a crush but i didnt tell anyone ... (225 words)

I don't feel comfortable moving to "second base"

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been been dating for 4 months but we dated before for 3 months i am a virgin and so is he but he has gone to "second base" and i have not and i just dont feel comfortable moving on to second base and we have had a talk about it and one thing that bothered me ... (110 words)

What should I do about my life?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am incredibly confused about my life. I had to quit my previous job due to the lack of skill in that area. Now I have trouble finding another job. I am 18yo, and it's the end of June, and I start college in August. I am broke as hell, and in 1 week I have to pay for my car ... (127 words)

He's become distant and he says its because hes scared

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so ive been seeing this guy for about 6 months now im 19 and hes 24..everything in the beginning was really great we would talk every night on the phone getting to know each other and then we would hangout every weekend and do everything together we got extremely close he told ... (223 words)

What if there IS a journal entry that I don't remember and I lose my son?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had something bad happen to me almost eight months ago. Me and my ex got back together almost 6 months ago. We have been married now for almost three months now. The person who did the bad thing to me is still insisting I'm lieing. My husband says he believes me but the bad ... (145 words)

I always feel disgusted after sex!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend so much, and I know he feels the same. We have a great relationship, he makes me feel so safe and loved. We've been together for a year, I lost my virginity to him, and the sex is wonderful. However, no matter how horny I am before sex, no matter how much I ... (121 words)

Boyfriend called me mentally ill because I'm insecure about my body

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25 June 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I hate my body, I don't know why, I just never feel adequate or beautiful, hot, sexy, whatever. I mean, a lot of it has to do with my face and hair, too. The two things that I can really do NOTHING about! But other than that I hate my small breasts, my huge hips and the cel... (878 words)

How to stop the sex?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have been with my boyfriend a year and a few months. We both weren't virgins when we met and we got close fast so we really didn't wait long to have sex. The thing is lately it seems he has been more touchy and all over me then usual and I've just not been feeling like ... (137 words)

I'm a private person, and don't like that he's shouting to the world about our move

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in the process of moving in together. We have known one another since high school, but have been together for six months. We are both in our early thirties, and he has never lived with a girlfriend before. He is the total package. He is smart, funny, g... (177 words)

I was playing matchmaker, but I really want him for myself

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a major dilemma :( I met a guy 3 wks ago and we became good friends. The first couple times he was really polite and gentleman like (walked me to my car, got me chocolate, etc.) just really really REALLY sweet. Then we started hangin w/his friends (in group... (395 words)

I've finally come to appreciate how much he loves me

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive known this man for going on six years...He has always had a desire to be with me, but me being the stupid and silly person i was i totally ignored him and acted like he wasnt important and was only seen in my eyes as a friend.... Now that i look bak on all those years it ... (133 words)

My boyfriend's mistress is his music....

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my musician boyfriend . But he's always spending time with his music . I go to the gym regularly and there is a really sweet guy there . He's cute and he seems to be attracted to me . I get butterflies around him sometimes and i'm always excited to see him . I ... (94 words)

I am looking for LDR success stories as I am about to meet mine for the first time!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Have anyone of you been in a long distance relationship? I'd like to hear some success stories!! I am meeting with my LDR next month for the first time. I have heard so many negative things about ldr's and it's making me slightly nerous. 'N' and myself speak online every night, ... (140 words)

My boyfriend is so obsessed with porn, he ignores my crying!

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and i cant seem to get past his porn viewing habit. i didn't know to what extent it was to until i found out he looks at it every single day!! he has lied to me about it several times saying that he did not watch it only to ... (564 words)

Why would he offer me a job under these circumstances?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was involved with a married man. We saw each other for several months but we never had sex. So then one day he stopped coming over but we still talked on the phone occassionally. I was laid off from work and several months after, he offered me a job. Why would he offer me ... (88 words)

Why does my boyfriend prefer masturbating rather than having sex with me?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me understand. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for the last 8 months. We have recently moved in together. Before we moved in we were having sex 4-6times a week. It has now dramatically dropped to about 4-6 times a month. I have a very high sex driv... (152 words)

I'd like to marry my g/f, but it's a package deal

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask my GF to marry me but she has an older brother that is borderline retarded and is also 90 percent deaf on top of that and he'll have to move in with us if we ever got married. He's on SSI and disability. He can't work, he has been totally reliant on my GF ... (84 words)

In the three years since the baby she's lost all motivation

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 3 years and we have been together for 6 years. We have 2 children together and she has 3 of her own. Here's my question. Since our daughter was born (3 years ago) my wife has no motoviation to do anything. She won't clean the house, won't make the kids ... (131 words)

Why can't I just enjoy my happiness with her?

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25 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now and it has been like a fairy tale, everything has been great. And for the first time I am in love, and I know she loves me. The problem is my mind won't let me accept this. I feel like because I am not always gushing and ... (241 words)

Is is reasonable for my b/f to want to me to stop talking to my friends since they're ex's?

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25 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know whats going on or why I feel like this so I'll try to explain it and see if anyone can give me advice. Well I've had a few boyfriends in the past and all of them I have stayed mates with but I'll tell you about the main 2 (which are my ex's) Boyfriend Numb... (651 words)