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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend slept with a guy I care about a lot -- do I drop the friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago, my best friend of 12 years slept with my long term boyfriend. I broke up with him, but eventually forgave her. More recently, she slept with a different ex of mine, who she knew I still loved and cared deeply for. She said it was a drunken mistake on both of their ... (107 words)

Separated since school ended and miss him terribly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a guy about a year ago for eight months we hung out together everyday and part of the night. We lived at a college for kids in their junior and senior year of high school so we lived in the same dorm but had strict rules and on floor times. He was a senior ... (233 words)

How can I tell for sure if I'm having an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 June 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi there! I realy need some peoples advice. Me and my boyfriend have dated for about a year and a half ( also the age on this is wrong I'm actualy 17) and when we have sex I don't know if I have an orgasm or not. I don't even know what it's supposed to feel like. I lost my ... (142 words)

We broke up over a misunderstanding! I didn't cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im jenny 18 , iv been with my bf for a year and a half, the other day on the 23/6 somethin happened, wen my bf asked me abou this guy i met in , there was a misunderstandin, he asked abt that guy who lived in germany, so in my head al i remembered about him was in 2008 we ... (311 words)

Embarrassing dilemma about undressing in front of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age - ok im 49 a young 49 and have a 40 yr old boyfriend.........my problem is im too embarrassed to undress in front of him!...........im on the tubby side and after 4 kids got a belly....(which i hate!) i was married to a drunk who yr after yr after yr knocked my confidence to the ... (113 words)

She says she wants something to remember me by?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My Girlfriend is moving to australia , we both dont want her to move , what can i do - if anything , to make her going away a bit easier because , at the moment we have decided on a make the most of it as long as we can but she said she wants something to remember me by, any ... (87 words)

They say girls don't care about penis size, but what about boys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've read all the questions and answers about penis size. And people say it's what you can do that matters and the girl won't care what size you are. I know that but I still feel insecure. And also..I'm a bisexual 15 year old and people are always saying that the ... (122 words)

Is this normal to feel upset after sex or a hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time this week with a guy who is three years older then me. I really liked it and he was so sweet about it but we aren't dating and there are storys of him being a player but I let him do it anyways. It's been two days since and he isn't really talking ... (145 words)

My wonderful wife won't indulge mild foot fetish. Any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a bit of a foot fetish. It's not excessive, I just like to see my wife barefoot, and enjoy it when she occasionally rubs her feet on my penis. My wife knows all of this, and isn't opposed to any of it, but she never indulges me. I've told her on a number of occasions ... (411 words)

I know he was a jerk, but I don't FEEL he was a jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have serious problems letting go of a guy, who I know (rationally) was a jerk! But I love him so much, and I feel bad all the time. I mean, he was jealous of my past, and because of that, he called me names and was verbally/emotionally abusive to me. Yet, I still see him ... (369 words)

Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age - Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) at everything, Best at Sex, ... (367 words)

How do I tell my ex I miss his company?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. We both decided to move on. But after on msn it got out of hand and he said he never wanted to speak to me again. After that he blocked me. A month later he unblocked me and said "This is silly I want to be friends although you probably ... (117 words)

Is it okay to see a separated man or should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ok to see a separated man? They are not divorced but looking into getting divorced, he keeps asking me out, says its over, he went back to her a second time for 9 months, they had counselling too, but says he is no longer in love with her and cannot stay in an unhapp... (112 words)

I'm gay, and I don't want to be!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey Everbody, i really need help with this problem i have....im gay , but don't want to be...i feel that being gay was not meant for me...nobody knows im gay and itz killing me to keep this secret...itz taking a toll on my life and ruining whats suppose to be the best years of ... (138 words)

Is it okay to go out with her? No sex, of course!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, what it is there's this girl who likes me a lot and I like her back! The problem is, she's 15 in November and I'm 17! Is it wrong to be going out with a girl who's 2 and a half years younger than me? Nothing will happen in terms of sex or anything of the sort until she's 16 ... (77 words)

My boyfriend has Aspergers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. i found out today that he has aspergers i have tried to look online to find more information but find it diffficult to understand all of the medical terms that are used. some of the symptoms that are described though i cant seem to see that he ... (95 words)

Love? Infatuation? Lust? Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am studying in college and I have a problem. I am attracted to a teaching assistant in my college. She is 23 and very beautiful and has a great body. I know she likes me as we have talked a lot and sometimes when I have flirted with her and she did not mind and also fl... (230 words)

Is there a way I can find out the truth? Does he or doesn't he have a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way I can find out the truth? There is a guy (who I worked with) I really like him and we have flirted for about a year and have always gotton along and we have loads in common, we arranged to go out once but he had to cancel last minute, no explanation and ... (401 words)

I need a cute, but not girly, name for my man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i was wondering when your in a relationship what do guys like to be called? Alot of my freinds said they like to be called "daddy" is that true? My bf calls me babe, beautiful, baby girl, angel, love. I usually call him handsome or my man and i want to be able to call him ... (80 words)

I love my parents and I love my boyfriend but I can't have both!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 24, and i've been in a great relashionship wit my boyfriend he is 42 my parents hate him because of the age difference and they think he is wrong for me but to be honest he is wonderfulllll,i Love him so much he really cares about me and very serious he asked me to ... (104 words)

I want to be with her but she's in an LDR with another man, how do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been close friends with this girl and she knows I am interested in her. I had popped the question a couple of times and she without being direct had dropped hints that she was not ready yet and asked me to wait. Which was fine with me. She has had a bad past, ... (328 words)

Should I try to convince my close friends (girls) to masturbate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 16, and I wanted to ask if I should try to convince close friends (girls) to masturbate or should them discover that alone. Im talking about girls my age... PS: I know it is healthy to do it.... (43 words)

What does he mean? Is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i've been texting this guy for 2 months. I never see him much because we're both busy. When i do see him, we wave, smile, and talk for a few minutes. Anyways, when we text, we have real conversations- we ask eachother questions and really get to know eachother. Recently, ... (178 words)

How can you tell if a guy enjoys sex with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's a question here somewhere about sex that I also want an answer. From a girl's perspective..how does one know if her partner enjoys sex. Can you see it physically? By body language? This is a question I don't have answers to. Can anyone give their insights?... (54 words)

Am I in love? Or just comfortable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've come to the stage in life where i'm wondering whether i'm in love with my boyfriend or just comfortable in our relationship. The thought of breaking up with him tears me apart at some times, but at others I feel like I want a relationship with someone else. We've been ... (402 words)

She threatened to kill herself, how do I end this relationship safely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm going to start this off by saying I never planned any of this well me a this girl starting talking on facebook manly because I thought she was my supervisor from a amusement park I work in well I thought that was over done well she sends me a message saying I... (194 words)

He doesn't know I exist, how can I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy I saw on facebook (: like... really bad. He goes to a school near mine. He's in the year above me.- And the same race. We have 25 mutual friends, and hes close to my cousin and her friends. But I cant ask her for help. My friend request is still going thro... (179 words)

I think like him even though I only met him once what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well a few nights ago I went too this party and long story short I had a bit too much too drink. I started talking to this guy, we spoke for a long time and danced and before I knew it we were making out. We almost slept together but he said that I was too drunk and he ... (163 words)

Is she just using me as a comfort provider?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age - I am a 66 year old male married to a woman 15 years younger,our relationship is becoming more and more strenuous.The main reasons are money and our sex life when it comes to money I feel that she spends way beyond her means.For exsample $2200.00 on a laser procedure to rid her ... (151 words)

I made a big mistake by having sex, my fling started to ignore me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - had a fling with a guy for 2months who recently chatting up a girl in front of me on the street 2 weeks ago, and has the cheek to call me asking if he can see me cos he wants sex. so i told to f off then he said don't talk be talking to me that, 20mins later he turned up at my ... (120 words)

I'm worried that he's not as in to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone I am 25 and in my first serious relationship and have a few questions about sex: 1. When I am kissing my partner (he is 40) he doesn't seem to get aroused. He does when I do other stuff like give him oral but not when we make out..does this mean he does not enjo... (273 words)

Is he being sincere or should I be wary ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so im friends with this guy at work. i really like him a lot-not sure the feelings mutual but basically ive been there for this guy through thick and thin this last year. ive helpedhim through his work tests and stuff and was a rock to him when he had a near breakdown-in ... (166 words)

B/f went through my cell phone messages and thought I was cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I forgot my cell phone in my boyfriend's car and while he was driving back to return it to me, he went through my test messages. To keep it short, he found some messages that made him think that I was cheating on him in the early stages of our relationship, but then ... (120 words)

I refuse to be a walking doormat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I been dating a guy for almost 2 years. We had a lot of problems because of him. Recently, a friend of his asked him to let a girl from another country stay with him for a few days. She came here looking for a career, and it turned out a scam. So, after a few day staying with ... (151 words)

Ex will not give me permission to take our child away. Should I just do it anyways?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to take my child away for a few months but Ex will not give permission. Should I just go and face the consciences when I get back? We are seperated but not legally. He is on the birth certificate. If anyone has been in this situation it would be great to hear... (67 words)

From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just didnt feel like i fit in to ... (209 words)

Still a virgin at 19. Should I just lose it or wait for that "special one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and still a virgin. This is really getting to me in a really bad way now. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i just keep thinking one morning i'll wake up and find that im like 40 years old and still in the same situation. Im terrified it wont happen to ... (289 words)

Contraception question

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife had our baby 8 month and two weeks ago. She started using norigynon(injected contraceptive) 2 weeks ago. Can she still get pregnant? Will she see her period when she complete the month?... (36 words)

I gave him a love bite and now he's acting all weird

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so upset rite now, Im having problams with a guy im sort of seeing but where not in a relationship but sleeping together, anyway a few days ago i gave him a love bite and obviously he noticed it, it wasnt huge and could hardly notice it, Anyway last nite, i txt him see... (270 words)

My man is defensive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend i have been together for two years now and we just recently just moved in everything is good.i have problem with hem every time i ask hem why he gets so defensive whenever i ask somthing about hes exwife he gets realy mad he doesnt want to hear what i got to say ... (288 words)

Can I get pregnant despite everything that is going against us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i am pre-menopausal for several years and maybe 1 period a year and my new companion is shooting blanks can i get pregnant. i am 40 he is 48 thanks... (33 words)

I dreamt I kissed another man, and the same night my husband dreamt about me cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i had a dream a couple of nights ago that i kissed a friend that i fancy, my husband also had a dream the same night that i might go off with someone else now i cant stop thinking about my friend, plus he lives in the same close as us. what should i do?... (55 words)

My husband feels more like a friend to me than a lover, and now I have met someone else....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 and have been married for 7-years. Our relationship is good – we talk, laugh and generally get on well. The problem is that I feel we are more friends than lovers and for the last 4-years we have not had sex. 6-weeks ago, I met another man and we really hit it off. It ... (177 words)

Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

30 June 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Another poll for you ladies: Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask? If not, how far off are you? A) Yes, I tell them my real number if they ask B) I tell them my number of "real" boyfriends or relationships, but leave out the one nighters... (113 words)

Is there any way I could make this work out with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am 25 years old. I met a guy through some online dating thing a couple of months ago he is 21 he was a very sweet guy and we still talk a little but lately hes been acting weird not talking to me as much. He still says he wants me to be in his life but I dont know. I am ... (164 words)

The sex in our relationship is too good to lose......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my boyfriend and i have the best sex i have ever had in my life. always passionate and honestly he is pretty kinky, bit of a freak. but.... i think we've broken up tonight.!! we fight so much now we barely have any sex, but is more intense that ever each time we do. i... (172 words)

I'm worried I'm not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know why but im worried im not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed. he seems happy with me, he gets an erection just by me kissing him and he never loses his erection, is that a good sign ? and he usually always climaxes when we have sex, but i cant read his mind and... (173 words)

I don't want to break up with him but I cant stand feeling like he has gone off me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and have been with my bf for about 6 months. I really like him but every so often it's almost as though he's gone off me but anytime I ask he says everythings fine. I feel like I'm just paranoid but a lot of the time I text him first and ask him to meet up, ... (194 words)

I feel guilty for kissing my friends boyfriend, espeically now they are having a baby together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend i use to go to school with and we were like best mates, we still are good mates (say hello everytime we see each other). she is 4 months pregnant with her first child, and she has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, she loves him to pieces and he does love her ... (255 words)

My feelings for my father are verging on hate and I feel nothing towards my mother. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 June 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of a strange question, and I feel awful about it, but I'm 18 and I don't think I've ever properly loved my parents. This isn't by any means just a recent thing, I've felt this way my entire life. Whenever either of my parents have shown and form of affection ... (554 words)