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I'd like to slow down and focus more on foreplay with my boyfriend. Any ideas?

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Question - (23 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey, I'd love some advice from girl and guy readers on how to give my guy great foreplay, please:) We've been together 4 months, and things are great. We're very physically attracted to one another, and usually go straight from kissing to undressing to sexual intercourse, but I'd kinda like to slow it down and try some foreplay on him. I'd love your advice on what guys like as foreplay, please :) Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

Apart from talking directly to him about it, one thing you can do is start foreplay in a context where he can't have sex. That neccesarily draws it out.

I am not suggesting you makeout in public,(though some people do), but I would find ways to intitiate sex without being able to consummate it. Sext messaging during lunch. Touching him under a table. Starting early in the car before you go home form somewhere. These are just ways to get your and his imagination going.

Some guys aren't into this, but for those who are willing, it can help them find a new appreciation for the build up.

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

Blonde68 agony aunt

Give his manhood some attention... I am not going to go into great detail, but if you are unsure PM me!. They love their tool played with.. but then I enjoy giving too so we are quids in.

Try it!

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntNever mind what 'guys' like, the big secret to your success would be to find out what 'Your' guy likes. Simply tell him what you would like for him and let him tell you what he likes. Everyone is different and so is he. Try it.

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