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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): it can't get any clearer then his own words. He only wants to have sex with you. Don't fall for anymore of his words. All lies. He's got a girlfriend you heard him say d. Find d and turn him in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): Sweet heart he is not worth you time. Listen to your gut and let him go. If he really loves you he will wait until you ready. And at that point it will be so much meaningful.If he wont wait he is not worth your time. Some boys feel as if the need to conquer a girl and be their first.Don't do anything you might regret later. I've seen this before, my friend had sex with her boyfriend of a couple days to only find out he was cheating. Make sure that there isn't anyone else first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): He's planning to use you for sex then throw you away he's already with who he wants to be with that D girl. Don't have nothing to do with the useless creep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): He's stringing you along to take your virginity then you're history because he's with d and not leaving her. Don't try yo get to the bottom of it with the assholle because he'll deny it to save face. throw him away and save your time and virginity for a guy who deserves you not a lousy cold heartedcheating user.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 he wants sex and is already seeing someone else? but what does car keys have to do with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): You shouldn't pencil in losing your virginity on a calendar or promise it to anyone for valentines day...It is not a box of chocolates.
I could see you saving it for marriage perhaps, but not valentines day. It sounds like you've been pressured and he is gloating.
Potential cheating aside(and it DOES sound like he's cheating) if he's even talking about taking your virginity so lightly with his guy friends, that would be a deal breaker for me.
Please save it for somebody who respects you more than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): It does sound like he's hanging around just until you give up your viginity, especially the bit saying "I gotta play it with 'm'" (which I'm assuming is you) really sounds like he's trying to manipulate you. Also I'd guess your bff's brother let you hear that message because he also suspects that's the only thing this guy is after.
Personally I don't think he's just acting macho, I bet after Valentine's day he'll be gone(or just visiting you for sex), and will probably be bragging about it to all his mates. If I were you I'd leave him and at least find someone who speaks about you with some respect.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Could be jumping to conclusions but then again could also only be a mark for he just wants into your pants then what? You've been a virgin this long why give it up to some fool who's trying to brag save it for your husband who eventually marries you imo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): I'm guessing he wants to get your virginity that's it. Ds prbably his gf he's been secretive about. Trying to use you what I'm thinking.
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reader, mattstermind  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 yes you are jumping to conclusions but that is normal. double check the date of the message, always first good thing to do, and is he maybe talking about you? just go over everything a few times you might catch something you missed earlier. ,Good luck.
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