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writes:Okay, so i previously asked a question about 'how to get over this married man that i'm ridiculously obsessed with' so, i guess you can go check that out if you want before answering the question so you know so background info but anyway, i did something.. so stupid and i need your opinion on this,okay, so this guy lives across from me, he's in his mid 30's and i've liked him for SO long! :/ so anyway, a couple of nights ago, my best friend slept over and it was around 10pm and he was online on facebook.. so we decided to start chatting to him, he knows me anyway don't get me wrong so it was kind of normal to start up a conversation. anyway, once i started to talk to him he walked past the window and saw that there was 2 of us as my bed is in front view of the window, he then started chatting to us saying 'how are you two?' .. he then went upstairs and came back down with no shirt on.. strange right? his blinds were open btw! we started a normal conversation and he explained how he was babysitting his daughter whilst his wife was out, and that he was getting drunk?! part of the conversation went something like this:him: "your dad drunk yet?"me: "nah, he gets drunk that often i think he's like immune to it now"him: "no, that's just what happens when you get old"me: "cause you would know ;)"him: "yeah okay, just like your mate that's sprawled out across your bed then"i then said something SO stupid..me: "how'd ya know, you been looking?"him: "i can't help it.. i'm sat in view of my window"the conversation then went on,the funny thing is.. when his wife came home it was easy to see that he was going SICK! he was walking really fastly around the house and when upstairs and cake back down with a shirt on..this is the weird part, he came outside.. looked up at us and threw his hands in the air like he was angry and then went to his car and then went back inside...have i done something awful by talking to him like that?! i feel so guilty and my best friend just keeps telling me that he was in the wrong talking to us like that when he knows we're only 16.. what do you guys think?sorry this is so long by the way(: xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): 1. He is married. 2. He is too old for you. 3. He is basically flirting with teenagers (pathetic). This is all a bit sad. I remember your previous post. You are obviously still playing along with this game he is playing. It can only lead to nowhere. Don't bother with him. Really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): wow....he was baby sitting and getting drunk at the same time? does that tell you anything about him? he flirts with young girls while his wife is out? does that tell you something about him? Think about it....he seems so irresponsible and disgusting...I for one would definitely not want to be with someone like him...seems like a total loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): Don't talk to married men like that. He's old enough to be your dad nearly. Remove him and stay away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): It isn't a good idea to chatting to him, but you already know that don't you? Plus he is way to old. Take him off face book, keep your blinds closed and keep away from him.
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (23 January 2011):
Sweety...the sooner you learn this, the better off you will be emotionally. Stay away from married men. If they're yapping to you, they have issues. Do yourself and his wife a favor and stay away. Now, to answer your question...yes you should not be talking to married men like that. He should of course know better. But, he apparently does not. Go get yourself a boyfriend you own age.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (23 January 2011):
 No, it wasn't terribly awful that you started chatting with him. It WAS poor judgement to begin a conversation with a married man, however.
I'm going to go easy on you as you are very young, though. And your friend is right.
Just be sure to completely avoid him in future! that's best.
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