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writes:ok, so i'm in love with my gf, but theres a few things i'm having a hard time getting over. #1: it doesnt bother me that she has kids, it bothers me that it seems she cares more about baby daddy than me.. should it?#2: the number of her sexual partners. i've only had 10 (she was number 10).. she has had 33 and shes only 2 years older than me. i feel insecure. should that bother me?#3: also, she sent photos to guys shortly before we started dating. and hooked up with her ex just to spite his current gf. and idk. do i have any reason to be upset to read into any of this? or am i just being an idiot?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 hi
1) what makes you think she cares more about baby daddy than you? are you sure you are not just being over-sensitive and suspicious about this or do you have genuine reason to say this?
2)to have been with so many guys at this young age makes me think she may have an emotional problem. this needs to be addressed, or else she may continue to get attention of men even though she is in a relationship with you
3) same as above, she seems a bit addicted to getting attention from men
so yes, you are right to have concerns. never ignore your instincts. talk to her and tell how you feel about these worries. she may be able to reassure you(and i mean by how she BEHAVES not what she SAYS ok?)
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