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Am I being dumped or is this salvagable..or do I want to run.

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Question - (23 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2011)
A female Canada age , anonymous writes:

So I was or maybe still am seeing this guy, I met him about a 7 weeks ago. For the last three weekends we have spent the time together.

He told me that he was out of his relationship his marriage for a long time, but i found out he was actually in a 10 year relationship (other than marriage) that ended 4 months ago.

His ex has been calling and apparently wants to get back together. He swears he doesnt want this but is now saying that we moved to fast. For the last three (3) weeks he has been hot on the weekends, cold in the week. Now he wants to end it, says he is scared..needs time. Am I being dumped or is this salvagable..or do I want to run.

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A female reader, AnnaW219 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

AnnaW219 agony auntget out of it as quick as you can this sounds like a dumping to me and he sounds like he can't make his mind up about you or this other woman maybe you sound be the one to make it easier for him as he will go for this other women anyway this is the reason he has done this

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntSounds like he is going back to the other relationship. He has used you to fill in the voids whilst he has been sorting his move back to her. He has been on rebound with you. Don't forget, he kept the truth away from you, why would you want to live a lie.

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