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writes:I dont even no were to start, I've been with my partner for almost eight years. We have kids together, we have had our ups and down, I have been trying to set a date for the wedding but every time i want to talk about it he dont - so, finally i asked him and he answered, he told me that he was not going to marry me until i act right, I cant believe he said that, i take are of the kids, the house and bills.I asked him to keep the kids so i can go to the house of the lord and he said no, i asked why not and he told me he just aint going to do it, I am really tired of him but dont know how to leave him, He dont want to have sex when i want it, just when he feels like it. I know what it is he got it too good, when i try to show him i love him he dont want me too, like if i try to give him a kiss he will tell me to stop playing, I can go on and on but this is enough for now . What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe propos about five yr a go and we were going to get marryed but i didnt go throw with it becousee i need to find out things about him that he did not tell me i just asked him to find out were his head is i feel as if i have out growen him he is about 15 yr older then me i think it is the big age gap
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 January 2011):
 You leave the man who is clearly taking you for granted. It's been 8 years and he tells you that he won't marry you until you start "acting right"?? Any idea what he's talking about? Have you been unfaithful or anything?
He sounds very self-centered and selfish. Is this the kind of man you want to marry? He will not get any better at supporting you or pulling his weight if it has been 8 years of this to no avail. I wouldn't stay around waiting for a proposal. Good luck, sweet! You deserve much better. Maybe talk to your pastor about this?
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