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writes:Ok me and my ex broke up bout a week ago, she says that she needs space to find herself b4 she can put her all into me again she promises that she not looking for anyone else or is gonna get involved with anyone else she says that she doesn't wanna change her facebook status from us being in a relationship so my question is what do I take from all this cuz she says she still loves me and is in love with me.
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reader, _nataliebeebaybee1  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 she basically wants time in which she can sort her head out , space to solve her own problems and see how it feels out a relationship aswell as in. Maybe issues within the relationship got on top of her and she doesnt want to rush her feelings by jumping straight back into it. This can be difficult for people to decide as she might well really love you like she said " she doesnt want to change her relationship status as of yet" thats because she hasnt made her mind up.
This might be difficult for you. You might not want to wait about all the time wondering is she going to get back with me or not. But you cant rush her she needs to make her own decisions. & if she does love you and want to make things work she will probabley end up getting back with you. and if you love her enough to wait...WAIT. you need to be careful she doesnt end up stringing you along, by this i mean one foot in the relationship and one foot out. Be clear and make her know that its all or nothing she can't have the best of both worlds.
* Most of all dont worry ! if its meant to be she will come back and if not then dont waste your time hanging around even though you love her she needs to make her decision in time so be patient ! *
goodluck and try not to worry too much even though its hard she just needs time to sort her head out.
all the best
xxx
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