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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,My current boyfriend had been broken up with his ex for only a month or so before we began seeing each other. But actually, the same week that we met, he was still picking her up from bars and coddling her like they were still together. Shortly after the last time he picked her up from the bar, he decided they were never going to get back together and she was using him. He was still texting and calling her while we were hanging out for the first couple of weeks. So my point is, we got together really quickly after he finally closed all communication with her. I knew that and I decided to take it slow with him. It's been 5 months since then and just the other day, he got a call from her and they chatted, she apologized and all that and he said it was really nice that she apologized. I get that.But that same night, she called really late at night, like 1 or 2AM. He didn't pick up because he was fast asleep. But it woke me up and because I had to pick the phone up to stop the ringing, I saw it was her. We were cuddling in bed the next morning and the second he picked up his phone and saw the missed calls, he immediately got up, put his clothes on and walked outside to smoke and to do whatever on his phone.Now I feel really awkward around him. I don't know if I should act crazy about it and confront him or just let it be because it's probably no big deal. We haven't really been having sex a lot lately, either, which is strange, since we had a lot of it at the beginning. Now he just doesn't want to or something, I don't know.What should I do? Am I just overreacting?
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