A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: OK. Well, lets just say I'm not very good at getting guys. Like, if I like a guy SO much I would be to shy to even look at him. I would prefer the guy come up to me. I'm a little on the shy side. Okay, I'm super shy. I have a few guy friends, but I couldn't date them. I just need a way to get out of my comfort zone. How can I be more outgoing and not the shy girl? How can I get a guy?
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (23 January 2011):
hi
i think you can just take a little tiny step out of your comfort zone to start with and just start firstly by looking at the guy you fancy and then when you are feeling braver, after you have done this with good looking guys for a bit you should be able to build up to saying hi, then when you have mastered this, you could get even braver by actually talking to them.
that way you are taking little steps towards being a braver you. also do what every you can with your appearance to make your self more confident, if you KNOW you look good this can boost your confidence a LOT coz you will feel as if these guys will feel happy that such a gorgeous girl is showing an interest in them
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