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writes: Help! I think I made a mistake; a big one. So, I liked this guy a couple of years ago, but I wouldn't go out with him because he was 16 and I was 13. We remained friends for a while but we eventually quit talking altogether. Now, I am in High School and he is probably in college, but I always wonder; did I make the right decision? I try not to think about him very much, but sometimes I have dreams about him. I have moved on from our relationship, but I have never been in one quite as close as ours was. One more thing to mention, when he asked me out, we hadn't know each other for that long and I didn't trust him that much. Thanks for the advice XOXO Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (23 January 2011):
hi
do you still see him at all now? you don't need to feel bad about saying no to him back then. at that age a 3 year age gap is A LOT. he probably doesn't think about you now after all this time, you were just a girl that he asked, you said no, he moved on.
just meet someone your own age who you can be sure of, this is always a better option than meeting an older guy who you have a feeling of mistrust for
xx
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