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*omanElle
writes:ive been in a relationship for 6 months now and with all my heart love this boy! id do anything and everything for him! and i know he would do the same for me? he says he would but he never shows it? i feel like im the only one making an effort to this relationship. well i actually am. since we've started going out ive given up so much for him! Im a figure skater and my whole life i wanted to do pair figure skating and i told my boyfriend about this and he hated the fact that another boy would be touching me. and i understand that but ive been doing this my whole life and i finally came to a point where doing pairs is possible. so i have given that up. im upset but ill do anything for him. so as time went on he also didnt like the fact that i was a cheerleader so ive given up that as well. and ive been considering modeling and i just talked to him about that tonight and once again he hated it! i really dont know what to do all these things im truely passionate for. i mean i always drop everything for him i bearly have a life with my friends. all the time that i have i devote to him! but i feel he doesnt for me. i feel like everything he expects me to do he would never consider doing. i dont want to break up with him hes my world. i just need to know what to say to him. and i try to tell him how i feel but he always turns it around and makes me feel guilty for it. i just need to know how to handle it i just dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 You have only been with him for 6 months. He is very controlling with you. Are you going to give up your dreams for him and sit in a box with him day after day, not going out in to the sunlight and enjoying y our self. This type of relationship is not good, no one should make you do anything you don't want to do or stop your ambitions. You have a gift, skating, go and follow your dreams, if he doesnt like it and y ou say he loves you then he will accept who you are.
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