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*sk cupid xxx
writes:last summer i split with my boyfriend and I loved him like not in love with him but loved the person he was and i feel like he stole my heart and never really gave it back cause now this guy likes me and he's really nice exactly my type of guy, treats girls well, wants a lasting relationship and takes it seriously but I just dont like him and I really want to because i feel like it could go somewhere but i just cant stop living in the past... what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskRosie +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Yeah sure.
Living in the past is when you can't stop thinking about what happened, and can't get over the hurdle.
Being not ready to move on doesn't mean that you are living in the past. It just means that you don't want what's being offered. Only YOU will know when you are ready to move on.
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reader, ask cupid xxx +, writes (24 January 2011):
ask cupid xxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlike to elaborate on how living in the past and not ready to move on are different ? (:
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reader, AskRosie +, writes (23 January 2011):
You have to do what you're comfortable with. If you like the guy from the summer, don't go out with the other guy. You may think that he's right for you, but he may not be. One of the worst things that you can do is lead a guy on...trust me, my best friend did for 11 months, then let me take the fall for it.
Do what you think is right, there's living in the past, and then there's not being ready to move on, two different things.
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