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female
age
30-35,
*mjo
writes:Recently I posted a question about a boy who seemed to be flirting with me online. I concluded that he was, that he probably liked me and that I quite liked him too but wanted to take things slow. Over the christmas period he was messaging me every day just to say hi and being genuinely quite complementarity towards me, which in all honesty I liked.On our return to uni he came over, we ate some food and watched a film, he spent the night but nothing happened. We both slept fully clothed and only had a little kiss (which he initiated). Also whilst we were watching the film he put his arm round me/held my hand. Now personally I took these as signals that he liked me and things were moving forward (At a pace I was more than happy with). He came over a few times that week, just for a little while each time, to say hi and so we could get tickets off him for various events (he recently started a new job, the day after the movie night where he sells tickets for the uni).We ended up in the same club on two occasions, we said hi, hugged, danced a little then drifted away with our own friends (I found this strange as Im my past experience when someone has liked me or a friend they've tried to spend time with them?) and since then he hasn't really messaged me or spoken to me properly.I asked if I'd done something wrong and he said no, that he was just busy but he seems to be spending a lot of time with one of my friends ( the one who introduced us) They were good friends before but they seem closer now... perhaps its my paranoia or the fact I now like him so am noticing this more? But as i mentioned before if he liked me he'd want to see me/ spend time with me etc?Have I done something wrong, does he like her? This wouldnt normally bother me too much but I want to know where I stand! Its driving me CRAZYYYYYY!Thanks all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): With us girls it always seems he likes someone else, yes they may be close but do not act on it. He most likely doesnt like her. As for the havr you done something wrong i seriously doubt it, you did wat any girl would have. Just tell him how you feel, share all of this with him not with dear cupid see if he understands how you feel and then work on it.
I hope i helped a little. xx
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