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anonymous
writes: ive been in a relationship 4 a while its very open.i go out and have fun when i want and so does he.the only condition we have made to each other is that we tell what we are doing and that has worked out fine (or so i thought)anyways the other day i asked my bf if he had 50 bucks to lend me he told me it was in his pocket. so i put my hand in his pocket and came up with a bunch of stuff including condoms and just the foils of them. i didnt say anything. just took the money and said tnx.now my question is why would he have condoms in his pocket especially empty ones? as far as i have known he hasnt gone anywere 4 a week.i have sought of lost my trust unless i am reading wrongly in this situation.and just making a mountain out of a molehill.i mean ive never been in his pockets before so maybe this is sought of normal 4 a guy to walk around with condoms?tnx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): Undoubtedly the condoms have been used, the question is 'what for?' Apart from the obvious, it might just be that they've been used for masturbation purposes - far less messy. Or his party trick might be to stretch one over his head and inflate it through his nose to the point that it explodes like a popped balloon.
I think the best thing to do would be to ask him if you're troubled by this - and put a couple of condoms in your handbag where he'll find them. They usually come in packets of three so that will have him guessing!
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