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51-59,
*oadlesstaken
writes:Was seeing a man for three months. He never took me out, but he would cook for me a lot. We would spend the night at each other's houses. He told me that he loved me. Well he went on a trip last week and he told me last night that he had a job interview in a new city. He said he didn't know if he got the job. I asked him about us and he said that he didn't know if he wanted to leave town just yet because of me. This morning I got dressed and before I walked out of his house, I told him that I was done and that our relationship was over. I think that he was using me to fill a gap until he left. He let me leave his house without saying a word. He didn't say bye or I love you. Nothing. So was he just that not into me?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Well I really dont know, you broke up with him! You walked out, and I cant really understand why?
He said he loves you, and he is not sure about leaving town because of you (indicating that he is factoring you into his decision). So why did you get mad at him? Why did you break up with him? I cant see it myself!
As for whether he was into you - I would have said yes he was. He said he loved you, spent time with you and was factoring you into his decision about a job therefore that indicates he liked you.
Now I'm not sure what his current job situation was - maybe if he was unemployed and was always planning on moving away, then yes you could have been filling a gap. But if he was only considering this job and was never planning on moving away until this job came up - then I would say no, he was not using you to fill a gap.
I think you might need to add some more detail here otherwise I really dont understand why you left him!
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