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writes:Oki.. so Ive now been with my boyfriend with 2 months and we are very happy 2gether, but 1 thing is that he keeps talking about his ex girlfriend to me and it makes me quite upset and jealous, he keeps saying that i'm way prettier and stuff, and then he sent me a pic of her to "prove im prettier" and she was barely wearing anything, i mean like why would he still have a photo like that...??? Do you think he still likes her.. What must I do.. Please help! !!!! xxx
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (24 January 2011):
Hi there. It sounds like he isn't really over her yet.
Did your relationship begin straight after that breakup? If so, he probably tried to get into another relationship way too soon.
When a man (or a girl) talks about their ex all the time, that means trouble as far as I am concerned. It is a warning sign and alarm bells should be ringing for you now. So be very aware of everything that happens from now on and make sure that he isn't still seeing her. You never know. Even if he isn't actually seeing her, he is thinking about her. That seems certain.
Instead of getting jealous and upset, you need to say to him that you prefer it if he didn't keep bringing up the past. It's bad mannered and very inconsiderate of him.
Also let him know very clearly, that it's got to the point where you really don't know where you stand.
If after you talk to him about it, and he still keeps on doing this, tell him it just isn't working out and make a break from him.
If a man was truly over his ex, he wouldn't be talking about her all the time, would he?
For him to continually be doing this, it can only lead to a lot of heartache for you, and this is already happening now.
You deserve better than that.
Best wishes and take care.
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