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*omanElle
writes:hi!so ive been in love with this boy adam for 2 years ive told this boy my feelings for me acouple times and he never gave out one clue that he liked me. all he would say is aww that was sweet we should hang out but we never did get around to it! finally over this past summer we went on a date. afew weeks went by since that date and we talked for 2 weeks straight! so i asked him if he would meet me at the mall just to hang out and he ended up bringing one of his friends garett! i was upset because i thought it wouldve just been us! well right before i left he told me that he had a girlfriend and he was sorry about everything. i was spechless!so the next night i told him how i felt and all. that night he told me he really liked me and he really wants things between us to work and he just needed sometime to think and talk to his girlfriend. that was the very first time hes ever admitted any feeligs for me. but the next night garett texted me. and as we talked our conversation went on he told me that adam has been dated this girl for 6 months and hes worked so hard to get her. but things at the time for them werent really working out? so hes lied to me for so long and it made me think if what he said to me really meant anything to him.well as it turns out me and his friend started talking and one thing lead to another and we started dating weve been dating for 5 months now. going out with adams best friend was wrong, but i was mad and i felt no sympathy for him. and now i will say i love garett with all my heart and id do anything for him! but i still love adam! probably more then garett and i always wonder what if i never started talking to garett if things between me and adam wouldve gotten anywhere! part of me regerts the decision i made but that other half is happy because these were the best 5 months of my life! and i want to get over adam but i cant! i mean i always see him hes garetts best friend he will always be there theyve been friends since they were 5! i dont know what to do! im always thinking about adam! hes the complete oppisite from garett but in a good way a way that i love so much more! hes the one that made my heart melt when he touched me or kissed me! when he texted or called me my heart would race! dont get me wrong garett makes me so happy but not as happy as adam did! but adam couldnt expect me to wait around forever for him? right? i mean i couldnt do that to myself? i mean he did use me and lied to me!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Adam had a girlfriend when he dated you, so he two timed his girlfriend. Where is he now? He is with her. He could quite have easily been with you, but he's with the one he really wants. Try to get him out of your system and stay with Garrett who obviously thinks loads more about you because he is proving it, much more than Adam. There's no reason why you can't all be friends.
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