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He seems to think the only one hurt is him!

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Question - (23 January 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago or so, and we've gone back to just being friends, which is fine for the both of us, I think.

I'll give some background on what happened with my boyfriend first. He liked me first, and I didn't wanna be in a relationship with him, but then he got all sweet and I decided why not? Then a few weeks later, he just suddenly decided to break up and I still liked him! It broke my heart.

So I was just on MSN with him and I was like "You douche, you started this relationship and then dumped me" (I actually meant it as a lighthearted joke) but then he got all angry like "I don't wanna talk about it", and he was saying how I was making a big deal out of it. I told him that it kinda WAS a big deal 'cause it hurt me, then he went "JUST SHUT UP", and he blocked me.

I didn't really see what I did to make him so pissed, so I went on his Facebook wall and I said "I'm always the one to apologize when we fight, regardless of whose fault it was. I'm sorry okay?". He hasn't replied.

I know I seem super clingy, but I didn't mean to make him mad with what I said. I kinda just wanted him to know that what he did hurt me, but he seems to think that the only one hurt is him.

Help, please. What should I do now? I still wanna be friends with him.

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