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writes:im 19 and every satday for the past 12 years i have spent the day and sometimes nights at my best m8s shes 19.about a mounth ago i was stoping over and it was late and i couldnt sleep so i when down stirs to get a drink of water, her younger sistor (17) was up and siting in the liveing room and it was clear she was upset so i sat down next to her and asked what was rong she told me that this lad at school had been makeing rascit comments to her (shes hindu)i told her not to listen as she is a wondiful lovley smart girl. she rested her head on my shoulder so i put my arm around her for comfort she kissed my cheek i went to kiss her cheek back but she truned in to me so i got her lips she started to kiss me and i responded we ended up having sex on the sofe after she told me that i was her 1st and she was glad it was me.we have met up 5 times more times she has told me not to tell her sistor but i feal bad about going behind my mates back whack should i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): hi sorry for the l8 reply but i lost my login detales, ok i should have stated in my 1st q that im white not indain so im not araged to any one. thanks for the advice but just to clarafie it was never just sex there was an still are true fealings there an to fill you in on whats happend sceens my best mate (the older sistor) found out about us being to geaver an she was'nt happy about it at all as she if you pardon the analigiy has a death eater look on life as in she bleaves in keeping the blood pure and mixing blood is rong, im still with the sistor an gaind a love but i have lost an old freind who refuses to speek to me untill me an her sistor end it but she will have a long wait as i ask her (the younger sistor) to marry me an she said yes i will keep you up dateded as to how it all gose thanks aghin for the help
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reader, faenon  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Aside from my eyes bleeding due to your grammar, Cerberus is right if you enjoy the younger sister's company (I gather you do since you've been sleeping with her) it's up to her to decide when to tell her older sister. Why are you feeling guilty for? Unless you've been arranged to be married with the older one or you're dating her that should be the only time to feel guilty about it. Since it sounds like its a platonic relationship with the elder sister you have nothing to worry about.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 It is up to your best friend's sister. If she wishes to keep this from her own sister, that is her choice, not yours, no matter how close you two are as friends. If you feel so terrible about it, what you can do is stop it from happening again. That is what you can do as her friend, unless there is something possibly deeper going on here, in which case, things are a little more complicated but if it just about sex, you have to stop it.
I hope that helps.
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