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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok sorry if this is a little long.So Im 17-18 female and just started working in a restaurant as a cook.Oh bye the way just warning poeple that this is one of those annoying teenage problems alright.The day I handed in my resume I saw this guy working in the back and I had goosebumps up my arms and all I could think was please tell me I wont have to work with him.You know how sometimes you can be so attracted to someone and be terrified at the same time.So anyways I got the job and you guessed it,Im having to work with him constantly.I'm the only girl his age in the kitchen and theres alot of young guys working around us.One of them is his freind who actually,dont ask me why seems to have a crush on me,Which although seems sweet his attempts just make me more nervous.The guy that I work with is really nice and helpful but aside from the fact that he answers my questions he doesnt know I exist.Really its like im invisible,and I can understand that I meen the mans working,hes busy,but..I dont no I just feel so cringingly ridiculous,I meen there I am in goosebumps and he just walks past as though im not there.The only time he didnt treat me this way was when at one point he teased me about being short,and I pretended to be offended.Sometimes I think maybe im just ugly,but I know that hes not the type of person to think about people that way.At one point I got annoyed at him and he was all cold and offended for the next hour.We dont even talk..dont even say hello or goodbye,just ask questions about the job,how do I do this,do you need help ext..This is just so stupid.Please knowone be negative,im trying to be positive about this thing.Im not asking how I should get his attention or anything like that,I suppose Im just wondering what other people would do.
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