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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I recently met a bloke in the office I work in. He told one of my colleages he fancies me. He then asked me on a date but I said no as I have a bf but I do find him attractive. Now I can't stop thinking about him. Is this normal? I still love my bf. I think I just lust this other guy. :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Sweet_innocence  +, writes (23 January 2011):
Its normal but just remember where your priorities lie. Try restablishing the resons your with your boyfriend over sum little feeling which may not even be anyhting...can you imagine yourself with this guy or more importantly, can you imaigne yourself without your bf...if he makes u happy and you have everything you want..its just empty feelings of flattery and jus satisfaction of having the option or control so to speak.."you still have that spark"..my opinion..dont act on your feelings. it is normal but just dont let them get the better of you..be in control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): I understand how you feel! The guy who isn't your bf, do you know him very well? If you do, you could be attracted to him for his personailty and it isn't lust, but if you don't know him that well it probably is lust. If you love your bf, I would stay with him and try to not think about this other guy as much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): I understand how you feel! The guy who isn't your bf, do you know him very well? If you do, you could be attracted to him for his personailty and it isn't lust, but if you don't know him that well it probably is lust. If you love your bf, I would stay with him and try to not think about this other guy as much.
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