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writes:I have been dating my boyfriend off and on for about three years now and we split lay november and now we are together. He just said to me "I want to take this relationship to the next level" and I have no clue what its suppose to mean or how to react. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): when he is telling you he wants to take to the next level.. he is talkin about sex.. now you as a female have the right to say yes or no.. if you feel like your not ready you need to make it clear.. to him. and if he is forcing you maybe you need to find a new boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): BAM! Cindy scores a direct hit.
He wants sex if you are not having it, or more sex if you are all ready active.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Simple : ask him. And ask him to be very specific, what does he mean exactly.
You see, normally it means going from dating casually to going steady , from on/off to committed relationship.
But ,due to your young age, ( you have started dating this guy when you were 10 -12 !!) I assume, perhaps naively, that you are not sexually active yet, or not completely. So, I have the sneaky suspicion he only means he wants more action sexually.
Better find out precisely what is what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): Probably wants sex..
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