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writes: There's this guy in one of my classes that I like. But the thing is, I don't think he likes me. I mean, he teases me and hits me and stares at me sometimes but I think nothing of it. It's so obvious I like him though. Even my friend whose oblivious to this tells me I'm too obvious. So my question is, how to make it NOT obvious that I like him? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't want it to be obvious mainly because I assume he doesn't like me and we see each other almost every day so if he finds out, things get a bit awkward, even if I try to make it not awkward. But thanks you guys!
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (15 January 2011):
Don't stare at him too much and don't openly flirt.. these are the more obvious signs that you like him. But to be honest, boys don't always pick up on hints that you like them anyway, so what may seem obvious to your friend and yourself may not be obvious to him.
Is there any reason you don't want him to know that you like him? Aside from assuming he doesn't like you.
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reader, mark89 +, writes (15 January 2011):
If you really like the guy talk to him maybe he likes you to and by teasing you he wants to flirt, so try to talk to him more. GOOD LUCK!!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (15 January 2011):
Don't look at him in class. He is a bit of a bully isnt he. he is hitting you, that's not nice. Just turn your back on him and keep out of his way at all times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Dont play this stupid game, with all due respect. Its good youre obvious. Men, at least, HATE mixed signals. Be straight with him. Good luck.
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