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How to make it not obvious you like a guy?

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Question - (15 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this guy in one of my classes that I like. But the thing is, I don't think he likes me. I mean, he teases me and hits me and stares at me sometimes but I think nothing of it. It's so obvious I like him though. Even my friend whose oblivious to this tells me I'm too obvious. So my question is, how to make it NOT obvious that I like him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011):

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I don't want it to be obvious mainly because I assume he doesn't like me and we see each other almost every day so if he finds out, things get a bit awkward, even if I try to make it not awkward. But thanks you guys!

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A female reader, lacrymosa_652 United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2011):

lacrymosa_652 agony auntDon't stare at him too much and don't openly flirt.. these are the more obvious signs that you like him. But to be honest, boys don't always pick up on hints that you like them anyway, so what may seem obvious to your friend and yourself may not be obvious to him.

Is there any reason you don't want him to know that you like him? Aside from assuming he doesn't like you.

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A male reader, mark89 United States +, writes (15 January 2011):

If you really like the guy talk to him maybe he likes you to and by teasing you he wants to flirt, so try to talk to him more. GOOD LUCK!!

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntDon't look at him in class. He is a bit of a bully isnt he. he is hitting you, that's not nice. Just turn your back on him and keep out of his way at all times.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011):

Dont play this stupid game, with all due respect. Its good youre obvious. Men, at least, HATE mixed signals. Be straight with him. Good luck.

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