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I cheated on my fiance with another girl and failed to use protection!

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Question - (15 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2011)
A male Nigeria age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i cheated on my fiancee of 6yr when she was pregnant. The worst i did was to bring the girl into our home and i slept with her without protetion. My fiancee got to know this through my skype on net. She confronted me with it, and i confess to her and apologies.

Please advice me on what to do? She heard a baby girl which i really love so much and i truly love my fiancee too. She is really dissapointed and said is hard for her to trust me and forget it. I dont wont to loss her.pls help.

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A female reader, PatientlyWaiting1 United States +, writes (15 January 2011):

All you can do is GET TESTED for one. You put her life at risk and possibly the life of your baby. Two...be very patient and earn her trust.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011):

you should probably get into professional counseling (both of you) to see if your relationship can be salvaged. Often it is impossible to save a relationship after adultery has occurred. The relationship may continue for awhile but the innocent partner can never let go fully and it will always be a problem. It might be better to part ways now or soon, rather than suffer through years of failed attempts to salvage the relationship. That's why you need the help of a professional counselor.

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