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writes:i am 46 years old not a baby by any means. but all i think about is sex nothing else matters to me but having sex. i was molested as a child several times. when i was married i cheated on my ex and now i just had sex with a married woman who is very unhappy in her marriage. i don't know what the problem i feel like tiger woods but much worse. if i was better looking and had more money i would have sex 24-7. please help me understand what is wrong with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): I recommend you seek professional help. sex addiction is something that should be taking care of. You said, you were molested as a child, so that's a turning point of something that should be treated and maybe has to do with your addiction. Something didn't went quite right there!
Take care of yourself and seek help as to control what you feel and your actions. What can begin as a desire may be become a habit and can end up badly.
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (15 January 2011):
Maybe you just scared that someone gone take it from You since you were molested. I think you need to get counceling.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 hi
depending on the extent, this could be sex addiction or just simply looking for affection and attention to fill a void in your life/personality. i am so sorry to hear you were molested :( have you received counselling for this? if not you REALLY need to as i am sure that your behaviour now is the aftermath of your childhood events. maybe you feel all the time that you want sex but you want it to be sex where YOU have a choice / control over the situation and the more times you do it the more chance that it can chase that other sex-memory out of your head. but its not working is it? think you need to arrange some therapy
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Sounds like you have an addiction. Have you ever displayed any addictive behaviour in the past? Often what drives people in wanting sex is the desire to feel loved. Going from what you have said happened to you in the past could well have had an impact on your sexuality and how you view yourself. How do you view your body and how you feel about yourself generally? Professional help is needed on this one by the sounds of it.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (15 January 2011):
It sounds like sex addiction, which is complicated territory. You should seek professional help. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): i was molested as a child and when i became an adult i would want to have sex all the time too. i didn't understand it until i went to counseling and because of the molestations i felt like having sex all the time was a way to express love or to be loved. my counselor says that i also used sex as a means of comfort, like some people eat when they get depressed i had sex. then maybe you just have a high sex drive. lol i really don't know, just sharing my experience.
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