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*omeonjesusthishurtstoomuch
writes:i normally stay off the net but a few weeks ago i had a question and it landed me on this site i asked my question got some good advice and felt better so i thought ok maybe i can help someone the way i've been helped so i started answering questions i came acrossed a question from a male that was embarrassed because he was the nice guy in the crowd the truest of true gentleman and wondered if that was too old fashioned for the bad boy lovers today here i am porting a question a few days earlier about being hurt by one bad boy after another and i find the man i've dreamed about thinking that he is broken so i had to change his mind before he changed his kind nature we started to message often and send pictures i am now falling for him and he lives 1500 miles away i am the person who laughs at long distance relationships but this man tells me he would move for love and that answer is totally him he is a real life angel a nice guy protective sweet smart kind gentle understanding supportive and did i mention kind lol but my question is if you care for someone could you really ask them to move away from everything they know and move to a different country what to do so i don't hurt the man i've been searching for all my life
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reader, faenon  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Well good luck with it and be careful take a few friends out with you or make sure your going places with lots of people with him until you can see how he behaves first hand with you.
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (15 January 2011):
comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch is verified as being by the original poster of the question he has already priced the ticket and as soon as his semester is over in the spring he is flying out i can't wait to see him but i don't want to hurt his life in any way your both right i don't know him really that scares me too but i feel so comfortable talking to him it's unreal thanks for the advice
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reader, petina1  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Youve said it yourself you don't usually encourage internet long distance relationships. I should keep him as a friend, or one of you will be in for a lot of hurt.
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reader, faenon +, writes (15 January 2011):
LDR's are usually a waste of time. For starters his chatting personality is just that, a online persona. You have no real way of knowing if his emotions and all he talks about online, are genuine, unless he's prepared to make the effort to meet in person.
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