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I've been seeing her but she thinks she still has feelings for the ex! What do I do?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (15 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I was recently seeing this girl for about 2 weeks i saw her about 3 times and we were really getting along well, she was always telling me how lovely i was and how i made her feel so happy, then she told me she still has feelings for her ex boyfriend and she's just really confused at the moment she was in tears when i spoke to her and it only really hit me how much i liked her the next day, she said she doesnt want to have feelings for her ex but she can't help the way she feels, i have been in tears myself and have felt so depressed, i'm really not sure what to do at all has anyone got any useful suggestions?

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A male reader, Learner.uk United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2011):

Learner.uk agony auntHi, sorry to hear your hurting, your going to have to give her time to think, tell her you understand and be a good friend supporting her as best as you can, she will forget about her ex over time if its still fresh, look after yourself and make sure your not being used as a rebound, im sure your not but it will stop you from being hurt any more. Hope this helps abit and all the best

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A female reader, golddigger99 United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

golddigger99 agony auntRun away!!! This spells trouble for someone your age. If you are still wanting to be close to her, consider being her friend, but this can also make the situation messier. You're young--have fun!

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A male reader, shadowlove United States +, writes (15 January 2011):

Just be friends for now and always be there for her. That way her feelings towards her ex will fade away.

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