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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together two years we stay together and argue a lot she says she needs space that she's in love with me and loves me but doesn't knw if she wants to b with me da past three days she says she's at her cousin house but each of those nights she won't answer her phone until after 7 in the morning I luv her but I wonder if she's cheating on me wat should I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): I don't think she is cheating. She needs space. Give it to her.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 I don't think so. I think she wants space and she is taking the space you are reluctant to give her, also by shutting her phone off for the night. So she can enjoy a short break, and the company of her cousins,without the risk of being pressured into lengthy and, from what you say, probably conflictual phone talks.
It may be that you have problems and she is not sure about what to do, but this does not necessarily means cheating. She does not need to be far from home visiting people for cheating- if one wants to cheat, he/she will find the way also at home- maybe with the next door neighbour.
Why the first time she does not pick up her phone does your mind immediately go to cheating ? that seems to show a low level of trust in this relationship- and maybe this is one of the things your gf is thinking over now.
If she wants space- give her space. Even if she were on the verge of breaking up with you, or she were attracted to someone else, is not by pressuring her and controlling all her moves that you'd get her back. In fact, I think you'd be giving her the final push to break free.
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