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writes:How to give my guy a better blow job?I have recently started giving my man blow jobs. It is the first time I have done this and I'm having trouble getting him to cum. I am not really sure what i'm doing entirely and I know people say pay attention to his reactions, but it's not helping. I always end up with a WAY sore neck by the time i actually get him to cum. So please help me out. Any advice, tips, anything on how to get him to cum faster? And make him go crazier?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): I agree, unplanned, spontaneous blow jobs are usually the most explosive and pleasurable for both of us. Be prepared for a little neck ache if needed, but I guarantee he will massage your neck afterwards (along with anything else you desire). I start with a little teasing. I find a lot of tongue action at the tip, around the rim, combined with timely sucking or rubbing helps speed it up. My man prefers some ball massaging, running my tongue up and down the shaft. A sure fired turn on for him is the area between his balls and his anus. Familiarity might breed contempt, but you can keep your sex life spicey with being more familiar with his particular turn-ons. I am gentle toucher, so my hands are always doing something in a sensual manner, along with my mouth and tongue. I never understood why ladies don't like it, I think the feeling of him cumming in my mouth and swallowing is the height of intimacy. Our best sex has been in our 50s and as I said, the best blow jobs have been unplanned.
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reader, MissSoul777 +, writes (16 January 2011):
Lol. to be honest the whole setting the mood thing is more just for me, kinda hides the fact that it's so dirty and lets me enjoy it more. (:
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 January 2011):
 You do not mention how long the process has taken with your boyfriend, but in my experience I have usually finished in about 10 minutes or so. Indeed, as MissSoul777 mentioned, a bit of mood helps, but blow jobs are actually quite a naughty event. Some of the best in my memory were what I'll call "surprise attacks" by wives or girlfriends who who just grabbed me and sucked off as soon as I arrived.
While I cannot speak for other guys, I've always felt that a woman who allows me to cum for her orally is very special. The ones who make me release the best usually spend a good amount of time licking, kissing and fondling the gear at first. That gets the juices ready to flow, and when a woman tells me she wants me to let go, it's quite a turn-on. Hope that helps.
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reader, relentlessheart +, writes (15 January 2011):
Use your tongue on the underside of his penis near the head where it makes the "V" down to the base. Carefully and softly massage his balls. Use a hand a jack him off while using your mouth and tongue. Most men like girls to try and deep throat. Know you are going to gag and you'll need to start out slowly(unless u wanna puke on him), but it will drive him wild if you gag by deep throating every once in awhile. After a few times you'll learn how to not puke but just gag. Giid luck!
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reader, MissSoul777 +, writes (15 January 2011):
lol. I feel so embarassed to answer this but oddly enough i think i can help. i'm not really sure how much you already know so i'll just start from the begining, first you want to set the mood for romance, dim the lights (but not so that its not to dark to see eachother without effort), turn on some music, etc. then kind of take control instead of waiting for him to make a move, start with some sensual kissing, hit some of his turn-ons like light nails down his back, or bite his neck. try not to let him know in advance that your going give him head, they like it spontanious. then start slowly working your way down his chest with kisses, and go just down right above his "thing" and stop and tease him for another minute with his turn on spot again and then lead back down. i kinda have a hard time working myself up to it, so i start by massaging the tip with my tounge and then slowly go deeper. one thing to keep in mind is to make sure your teath arent scraping. and you dont want to just go one spead either, try switching between slow and fast and deep and just tip. also i found a really good secret is to move your tounge up and down and massage the whole length of "it" when you go deep and when your just at the tip run your tounge along the rim of the head and suck gently. the two main spot to hit is on the underneith side right before the head and about an inch or two above the balls on the shaft with different parts of the tounge. you'll drive him wild and it will take less and less time everytime. oh and they really like it when you let them cum in your mouth for some reason, it's nasty as hell but they'll never forget it. lol. good luck and remember the best thing to do sometimes is just to ask him what he likes. (:
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 You're lucky :) why don't you er... take advantage of it ;-) Seing you do that might actually turn him on and he'll come faster.
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