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The baby's father is pushing me away

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Question - (15 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *134quila writes:

i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. we have a 2 year old son together, and he moved back to his home town last year. he told me he would come back if i get an apartment, and now the apartment is almost ready and im in the process of signing the lease. now he has just been hired on a job that he will not refuse and changes on the plans. he told me if i dont want to come there and be with him then there is nothing he can do with me but help me with the child, but i know he has another girlfriend and keeps lying about it because his family keeps telling me,. i would move there if he puts up the effort and shows me that he wants to be a family but he is not, and its hard for me to deal with him being with somebody else, even if it is far away, and its hard for me to move there away from all my family and the people my child sees everyday. what should i do?! especially if he is pushing me away and not trying to put enough effort in.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntYou've got y our flat organized now. He must have known you were going through all this and yet he still took a job near to him, and not you. i should say that he has made his choice. Concentrate on your son and yourself now and give your son a nice life away from this man who obviously can't commit to you both 100 percent. If his family are saying he is seeing someone then he probably is.

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