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male
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36-40,
*akie
writes:Ive got a big problem my ex is seven months pregnat and she dumped me but i swear to you i love this girl more then anyhting what do i do and and she says she loves me im confused i want her back
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (15 January 2011):
Hi there. Did you have an argument? Couples usually break up over something.
There has to be a reason. I don't think you said what happened - just that she broke it off with you, that's all.
You will have to have a talk with her about this. In another 3 months, she will have her baby.
The baby is yours, I assume? There are no problems are there about that?
For the moment, give her some space and it does seem that she needs that.
As the time is getting close to the birth, she might be getting a bit overwhelmed about the prospect of motherhood. Perhaps she thought she wouldn't have become a mother till much later in her life - say her 30's.
It's going to be a huge change in her life, once her baby is born. Perhaps she is sorting out how she is going to handle the situation when it does happen.
She is going to need some support then.
So for now, give her some time alone - perhaps a week or two to about a month - then try to get back in contact with her, or wait until she contacts you again.
Best wishes and take care.
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