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writes:ok, so i really really love this boy, but he's openly gay. at a party once he took me upstairs and we just kissed and got drunk together, but another time he told me he wanted to have sex with me, i was drunk so i agreed, he was amazing, and he told me he loved me. but he said he doesn't want to tell anyone about us because he has only just been accepted for being 'gay'. recently he told me that he had sex with a guy and that he was really sorry, and wants us to get back together? i don't want to keep this a secret any longer, what should i do?
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reader, EPocket  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 "he told me that ..."
everything been told to u by HIM and u have to keep it a secret . well . many guys would tell girls wat they WANT to be .. but most are not acknowledge wat they even talk abt :P
sweetie . sounds he TELL too much . and u dont have to eat it all :) its UR relationship . u both are sharing something .. so make it "at least" a beautiful thing .
think 4 times and remake the title u had for ur topic here ."He's gay... but I love him """anyway!"""" how far this would go .. ? for how long ? i have nothing against gays . got one in my family is . but i still can tell him if he did wrong :) he need to chose as u must do the same :)
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reader, Fabulosa  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Bi is an option. And he shouldn't feel stuck to any label. Talk to him. U deserve to have an open relationship. And pleeeease use protection!
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reader, midnightsky63 +, writes (15 January 2011):
If you love this boy that much then I would take him back. But you need to talk to him and say how you feel, that you don't want to keep it a secret any longer. If he loves you that much then he should be able to accept your wishes and take it in his stride, and that he should be proud to have you.
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