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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is probably a dim-witted question to ask but I am a girl on her last year of high school and I think that I am in love. With a boy, who I used to know and hang around. He used to make me laugh the most, even on my worst days. He left when I was 8 and I missed him many years and still do but I am petrified of whether I am now in love with him or not as thinking of him makes me feel so happy and reminds me of my past. I feel shy talking or chatting with him because I don't know the exact way to answer him back. However, when I hear his voice, I sort of feel like he is not for me as he talks differently but then I tremble and don't know what to do about him. I don't know where to follow when the one I think I love is making me feel like I don't belong anywhere else apart with him, when I think of him when I see couples, when I sort of get jealous if I see him chatting with other girls, when mistake him with other guys just because I am thinking of him.Please help if you know whether I love this boy or not.Realising love is really hard and I don't know if I will ever be able to solve.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Your last Real analysis of this guy was when you were 8? Then you absolutly need to re-evaluate based on how he has matured(or not) since then..go slow!
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reader, auntieloulou +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Hmm...cant really answer if you love him or not because only you will know that. but evidently you really like this guy so you need to do something about this, what have you got to lose? its a scary prospect, going up to someone and telling them how you feel, but if you dont you will never know. life is too too short. you dont even need to tell him face to face, you could send him a text, an email, talk to him on facebook, write a letter..just go for it!
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