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writes:i am 33 yrs young man living in copenhagen and married 10 yrs ago and have got one 3yrs daughter and my wife has cheated on me for 2 times since last year and she told me she had 8 times sex with her lover ,,,,,,,,,,,but still she is in love with me........now we are living separately around 2 months but i really do not know what to do, should i give her last chance or i must break it up my family and so on?
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 Hi dear friend, sorry that you are going through this difficult time. You're great husband for having forgive her 2x already. I am sure lots of details but the fact that she admitted 8x is huge..
Anyways, my best advice is that you should do what you want & what ur heart tells u to do. U live life once, people make mistakes, people change, maybe this time she really realize she really loves you & wants to work things out..
Do what's best for you...u both have a beautiful daughther together & if u still love ur wife? Why not?
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reader, BigSambo +, writes (16 January 2011):
It sounds that you are willing to take her back with the condition that she won't cheat on you anymore. If that is the case, I would take her back but make her sign a document that she would be out of your life if she does it again. The statement could be a deter her from doing so, otherwise men like you and I are no match when it comes to women scheming things, lol.
No offense intended ladies.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 January 2011):
She cheated, twice. She's not worth the bother. You gave her the chance, and she failed badly.
you would do better to just make you're you're a damn good father. It's not like you're breaking up your family. She did that already. What you're doing, is you're making sure that you're not turned into a doormat, and that your daughter has you as a good father.
This woman cheated twice, and I don't think you should take that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Well, just an advice. Take her back and watch her steps, maybe there's a friend you should stop to be her friend. Cos sometimes friends lead friends the wrong way, think about that. Now is by your power for the marriage to stand or fall.
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