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36-40,
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writes:I'm not going to go into details about my past relationship with this guy.... right now, we are just friends, we 'broke up' this past summer... we ended on good terms... but he felt that we needed to be separate from each other to 'move on' from some sticky stuff that happened at the beginning of our relationship... he said he thinks that us being apart is the only way to find out if we can be together again... which I agree... I'm not 'waiting' around for him, but i'm not actively seeking other guys... i'm just enjoying being alone...I just want to hear POSITIVE advice from people who've had experience with getting back together with someone--no matter what time frame....
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Never forget, you broke up for a reason. You broke up once, it will happen again. The relationship simply is not strong enough.
I've done it, my friends have done it. Never successfully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): If you look in Guinness' World Book of Records I'm positive you'd find my wife and myself's story under "The Reconnection That Beat The Odds." LSS: I was a bastard, a cheat, a drunk, a violent abuser, a chronic gambler, and the list of dirt ball goes on. Our separation was bloody dirty. I hit rock bottom before realizing the mess and agony that I put her in, myself in, friends in, family in and so forth. I woke up and made the decision to rectify the damage. I had no choice because it was the only way proper to earn my wife's love, belief, trust and loyalty back. Five and a half long but well worth years of determination and the refusal to not give up is what it took to get my wife whose was then my exgirlie to give me one word which was thank you after I apologized for being her hell and thanking her for leaving which awoke me. You get the point. The main thing is how much you want it. The time line doesn't make you give up.
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