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writes:I've not been real big in the dating world here recently so I need some advice. How to you get to a womans heart? Reply to this Question
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reader, EPocket  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 JUST BE YOU
if she take it :) she will for a long tirm ..
if not ;) u dont need her .
the mistake that many fill with is lake of honesty and trying to fake things of the other party .. nothing much to tell .
women are complicated and some are moody :P
if u had someone in mind and wanted to get her heart . just show up and see wat she is giving back . if she is giving more space u`ll be able to go closer . if not .. well . u know wat to do ;)
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reader, Abella +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Ahead of all the rest below:
Smile at her, some direct eye contact, compliment her. Be respectful, not pushy, at all times. Now the rest below:
1. Listen to her every word
2. Remember the things that are important to her
3. Empathise with her
4. Don't interrupt her
5. Be honest without malice at all times
6. Notice how she is feeling and adjust your approach accordingly
7. Focus on what you see as her good points (and don't focus on just the physical)
8. Be reliable and do what you promise, turn up promptly, keep her informed about delays or changes
9.Dress appropriately - a woman takes the time to dress well - but her date turns up dressed way too sloppy as if he doesn't care = big NO
10. no body odor, no halitosis, no unwashed hair, no dirty fingernails and never drive too fast, nor unsafely.
11. No excess alcohol/ no illicit drug/no out of control gambling issues and no criminal behavior
12. No seriously bad financial issues, debts out of control, creditors after you.
13. No baggage from previous relationships
14 don't be a door mat - you do not have to agree with her on everything.
15. Have a back bone/ inner strength
16. Don't be too pushy for an intimate relationship too early, just get to know her first. If she pushes first, let her know you like her, but explain you want to know her better before you do that.
17. If you want a dalliance with another girl then end your current relationship first.
18 better if you are employed or seriously and genuinely looking for a job - a guy who wants to lie on the couch all day is not attractive.
19 keep physically fit, it's reassuring that you care - she'll be the same if she cares
20. Introduce her to your family and friends and invite her to (family invited) work events - she'll know you are proud of her.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 For me, its honesty...understanding and moral support...the rest will come out naturally as you go along with her.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 If she really likes you and wants to get to know you, then you are halfway there. Maintaining that is the hard work, putting effort in and never letting that momentum slip. That's the key to long term relationships, never letting them go sour and bringing lots of respect into it. But of course no relationship will work 100 percent unless you both want it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Sit down and talk to her face to face. No phones. No sports game in the background. No horrible Bieber tune playing above in some cheap ass speakers. No distractions. Just you and her having an intelligent conversation. Good luck man.
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