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writes:dear cupid for the past 2 years my husband has cheated on me with a 21 year old girl also other women call my home looking for my husband the 21 year old girl showed up at my house to see my husband i asked him if he knew her he said what if i do also he hides his cell phone and lap top he stays up until 4or 5 am on the lap top what should i do about this .
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): OMG! I feel so bad for you having to put up with this crap. Check out the laws in your state about Adultery. If your state frowns on adultery, then hire a private investigator and start gathering solid evidence. Consult a lawyer on how to go about leaving him, without YOU being charged with desertion. Then follow the lawyer's advise and "Take him for all he's got"
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 I agree with the two previous answers. Your husband is your husband in name only. He is showing you massive disrespect and breaking his marriage vows by cheating. You need to be strong because it takes a lot to face up to the reality that the marriage has come to an end.
Gather evidence of the cheating and get yourself a divorce lawyer. If nothing else, it will give him a massive reality check which may stop him in his tracks...if he doesn't stop, then you, at least have the wheels in motion to get yourself out of the cesspit of lies and misery.
Good luck girl...you are gonna need it xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): I'm sorry. It is time to end the marriage. Contact a good lawyer. If you can, stay in your home and ask him to leave.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (15 January 2011):
I hope you have a savings account and a good job because that is your plan B. Leave him. He is not even hiding his cheating and he has zero respect for you. Look after yourself. Feel free to email me privately. Is your self esteem okay? Does he talk down to you at all? I do think you should move on.
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