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female
age
30-35,
*adyIris
writes: My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and he got 2 new girlfriends when I still havent found one. But thats not the problem his newest one hates me I know because we all three (me,her and my ex) are in the same PE class. Him and I havent talked to him in months but she is always avoiding me and glaring at me. I dont know why she hates me, she even heard me say I would never get back together with him. The other one didnt but why does this one?
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reader, Learner.uk +, writes (16 January 2011):
Hi, i think she is just prob insecure or see's you as a threat as you are his ex, dont change yourself and how you are, just be you and enjoy your life to the full, show your the stronger person and your not bothered. All the best.
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reader, golddigger99 +, writes (16 January 2011):
Some girls are threatened by an interest of their boyfriends. Even though your boyfriend isn't interested in you that way any longer, there was ultimately something that attracted him to you. She might just be jealous of you, that you don't think he is good enough and that he chose to date you first. Either way, it's not your fault. If this bothers you enough to take action, try introducing yourself to her and maybe do lunch or something. This is a neat way to let her see that you are not threatening. If this doesn't work, consider speaking with your ex. He might have enough influence over her to make her behave.
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