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writes:I'm a freshman in college and I can't get over the teacher I fell in love with my senior year at high school. It's been over a year and I expected to be over him by now but I still have fantasies about him and CAN NOT believe that I wont ever have a chance with him. He is 52, single, never married with no kids. He is not handsome but he has the most beautiful personality ever and I love him. I keep waiting for the day when we could be together and I know it's wrong to do so because he is never gonna waste his time with a 19 year-old. What should I do? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!
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reader, lonelygirl11  +, writes (27 January 2011):
I cant really help but i know how you feel i still have feelings for a teacher i had when i was 11 i fell for him about 8 or 9 ive not seen him for 14 years and the pain is unbearale i know im far to old to feel this way still but cant help it i have tried to move on but cant id just tell you keep in touch with him but dont let it ruin your life like it has to mine
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Live your life..live for what you have..live for each day..just go with the flow of life,because if you trust in the word called "destiny" whatever it may be,it will be yours..just wait for the right time,because everything will be unfolded in the right time,if he is meant for you,then surely love will find its way.. :)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 January 2011):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-former-teacher-who-is.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (15 January 2011):
swordandredrose is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I'm not his student anymore and it's not illegal. I'm in college now and he was my high school teacher. His job is at no risk here.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (15 January 2011):
 You won't be the first, you won't be the last student to fall in love with a teacher. You have put him on the pedestal, he is in command of the classroom. He is a God. Now think of him as your next door neighbour,55, single, not very good looking. He is just a man, old enough to be your grandfather. Now think of this. If anything at all did happen, he would lose his job, his pension, his livelihood. When you are 39 he will be in his 70's.
It is not allowed for teachers to be with students anywhere, they lose their jobs. Is this where you are heading.
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