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*unnyguy25
writes:i'm a 15 yr old guy....i hav a gf...and we love each other a lot!!! she has a sister who is older than me by abt a year and a half and is much more attractive than my gf...this sister loves me as a brother and i love her as a sister as well.....but sometimes i get aroused and feel a lot more for her than usual....i get a few dirty thoughts abt her.....i noe that i dont love her as a girlfriend.....i think it is only lust....i know that things will get messed up if i link up with her....so please let me know how i can curb those feelings for her and just think of her as a sister.......remember, in between all this, i still love my girlfriend as much as before...please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Saamm +, writes (15 January 2011):
Defiantly keep your distance you don’t want to lose your relationship with your girlfriend for someone you don’t even love. Remember its true love that really counts.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 You can love someone and have lustful feelings for another, its not a crime, its natural.
However, it is important that you don't let these feeling control your actions. Don't get into any situations where you can be accused of acting inappropriately. Keep your distance from your girlfriends sister.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Relax buddy. Feeling for girls older than yourself in your teen years, especially "sisters" (who are more approachable) is quite natural. Don't sweat it. Just don't get carried away with this. And you are right, things _WILL_ turn ugly if you did something about it.
Just take it as a part of life. Keep yourself diverted. Avoid contact with her if possible and you'll be fine!
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reader, funnyguy25 +, writes (15 January 2011):
funnyguy25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionplease answer this question as soon as possible!! thnk u!
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