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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Need your advice urgently. So here's the background story. Went out with a a few friends to a club. When we were there one of this group (lets call her Lynn) knew a guy there. Anyways this guy started to hang around us and him and I hit it off. We started messaging each other back and force, flirting a lot over the coming weeks. I thought he had a crush on me and I was sort of feeling something back. Anyways I later find out the during this time Lynn and that guy kissed. When the guy calls me and continues flirting I brought up that I thought him and Lynn kissing was interesting gossip. I brought it up because I felt horrible that he was flirting with me so much when he was kissing my friend. Anyways I haven't spoken to Lynn for weeks (not because Im ignoring her or anythign just I guess life got busy) or so I thought - know it feels like she is ignoring me. Anyways we are going to be at a mutual friends party tonight and I am worried about being around her. I dont know how to act. I don't know if she is ignoring me (even though I haven't done anything) and Im not sure how I feel about her as a friend now. Any advice on how to be socially elegent in a situation like this??? Sorry to sound like a silly highschool girl, but this is how my life is when Im around Lynn. I used to think she was so much fun, but now I know she'll keep having fun even if its at my expense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Doesn't sound like "Lynn" is any benefit to your life. You should cut her completely out of your life as a friend, especially if you feel childish in certain situations that deal with you and her. Good luck.
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