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writes:Is it normal for a guy to say "I love you" in the first few weeks of dating? I always thought it took months or years until it got to that point. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone!
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reader, Babygurl81296 +, writes (15 January 2011):
Yes, i agree with petinal. If he really falls that hard for you it is possible. My boyfriend told me he love me the 3r week we were dating and its been going great. He is very faithful and we spend every minute possible woth each other. When he told me i was very caught of guard and i told him i loved him back but now i know i really did. Yes it is possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Some people fall hard and fast so yes it is possible. Don't just listen to his words watch his actions, that will give you a better idea of how he feels.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 It's so normal. Guys and girls say it so flippantly. When true love does come it goes so much deeper. I can honestly say, because of all ive been through that my partner would give me his last breath if he could, and that is Love. The term 'Love grows' is true. As we go along through the years it's like it grows on different plains, year by year, what you go through always suprising as to what lengths your partner will go to make you happy. So the early stages of a relationship when someone says 'I love you', is good to hear and strengthen but 'Love' is a feeling and once it grips you it will only grow if it is given back to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Yeah thats a HUGE red flag. It sounds like he is seeking attention or he is desperate to know someone and since youve given him some light of day, he feels very strongly about you. That's good you question this. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): Its not a matter of how long you are together, its a matter of whether you are ready to say it. For some people yes it takes months or even years to be able to say 'I love you', just don't go saying it unless you mean it, give it a while and if you feel you are ready to say it back then everything is great :) just don't start to feel you have to say it cause he has, and don't start to think that the relationship is going nowhere because of it, trust me your boyfriend will understand.Hope everything goes well for you both, and I wish you all the happiness in the future :)
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