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*rs.heartbroken
writes:im constantly finding text messages from girls and my husband sending them to girls last night he got home at 3 am and he had a message telling her it was nice meeting you beutiful i cant wait to see you again sat. i dont have a girlfriend or anything. this has always happened im tired of having to chase the girls just to keep my family together i have 2 kids one on the way he says its because i left him for 2 years and he cant forgive me because he suffered a lot seeing me go on with my life but i left him because he used to hit me and do drugs. im tired of it he acts like nothing happened and says he didnt do anything wrong i cant get him out of thinking that i told him to leave but his parents are living with me what do i do? what can i do? he wont leave because his parents are here it hurts me to see him cone and go as he pleases like nothing happened what do i do?
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (23 January 2011):
 I'd make an "anonymous" call to the police and have them come to your house and pick him up on the outstanding warrant.
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reader, mrs.heartbroken +, writes (23 January 2011):
mrs.heartbroken is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell no not with 2 kids my mother lives in a studio with my brother and the apartment is mine i let them live here while they got back on their feet i already told them they had to leave but he wont leave regardless i cant call the police he has a warrant i wont be that cold although he deserves it., its sooo hard for me i cry everyday and night he comes and goes as he pleases how can i make him leave
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (17 January 2011):
If he won't leave, can you leave? Do you have family/friends you can go to?
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reader, Battista  +, writes (15 January 2011):
Who owns/rents the house? This will have a large bearing on what you can do.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (15 January 2011):
Are you renting an apartment? Is it in only your name? Can you cancel the lease and give his parents notice about moving out? Give them some time to find a place and you move. You are so so very young. Trust me you have so much time ahead of you. Think about you and your kids and do what you have to do for them. Make a plan to be independent and let him be single because he acts like it anywaym
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