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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my crush go to college and are on the same course. we were in the same classes at school so we've known each other for years. thing is i think i'm in love with him, i mean i have had crushes before but i've never felt this strongly about a guy before. me and him used to occasionally talk about school work and things but thing was he treated me different from everyone else. with everyone else he was confident and with me he was shy. i thought i had no chance becuase he's mr perfect and he can get any girl he wanted. but in the last year of school when i told him what college i was going to he insisted to go to the same one. next thing i know he took the same cource as me too but he wasn't in my class, i did see him around campus though. a few weeks went by until the teacher announced that one student was moving into our class, turned out it was him. I was so shocked becuase the class he was in had some of his old friends in it and no one was in my class that he knew except me. from the moment he joined our class he fit right in and made new friends but unlike school he kept talking and flirting to me until it became a normal thing. i was so happy and even more so when i heard what he thought of me, turned out he fancied me. i was starting to think he might ask me to be his girlfriend. but then i dunno what happened...everything just went wrong. he stopped talking and flirting with me, i wanted things to go back to normal and let him know i like him so when it was his birthday i gave him a card and put love from with kisses, he excepted it with just a casual "thanks" then throughout that lesson his mates were teasing him about me and him. when class ended i saw it in the recyling bin. a few weeks passed, still no contact between us. and now he has pictures on the internet of him kissing another girl and he's flirting with every girl in class except me. anyway now i don't know what to do. even though we never went out i do feel hurt, i mean if he doesn't like me then why did he pretend he did? it couldn't have been his friends fault becuase he stopped talking to be before that. if he had just stayed out of my life i would have gotton over my little crush and it wouldn't have grown! i just wish things would go back to normal but i don't know how? i can't approach him he might like me even less! :( thank you to anyone that helps me out.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Ok well it does sound like at the start he did really like you as well but obviously something changed for him to start acting this way. Maybe it was a case that he thought you werent interested therefore he gave up flirting with you and moved on. I think really you only have two options here now.
One tell him how you feel, tell him you have liked him for a long time and ask him straight out why he started ignoring you when you have done nothing wrong. I know it sounds scary to do that but if you search hard you will have the power and confidence within you to come straight out and say it to him. Just remember you are a young confident woman and you should stand up for yourself, guys love confidence and a girl that is open and honest and not scared to tell them how they really feel.
Or two just accept that you are not going to do anything and move on. Yes it is hard to move on from a crush when you have to see them at college but with plenty of time you will begin to feel better.
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