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writes:My boyfriend and I jus started dating. For like the first week everything was going very well. We talked all the time and texted all the time. We always checked on each other, but then all of a sudden he quit texting back. That same day I called him and he didn't answer nor bother to call back. So at that point I'm thinking he needed space. So I waited till the next day and asked him why he hasn't been replying to my txt or my phone calls and he said he's been stressn a lot because he jus lost his job and gotten put off the football team. I expressed my sympathy and told him I would call him later, but he said no he would call me. He did call but he didn't say anythng when I answerd and I tried to call back "no answer" even textd "no reply", then I txtd him the next day "no reply". I don't know what to think at this point, any answers??
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u for the answers...but he eventually did call me and everything has been great since then..I gave him his space for a little bit and I'm glad that I did, I couldn't be happier!!! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): I've had this problem with my guy too. Mostly when he has alot of tests in his nursing program and he needs space. It always lasts around three days and no more. Give him some space, dont send texts or call him, let him come to you. Keep living you life. Guys don't like clingy so if he isnt ready to talk tell him you understand and you will wait. :) Hope this helps.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 To be honest, it doesn't sound like he is interested in you any more, which is very normal for a teenage bloke.
You may have gone OTT texing all the time then sending pety "no reply" messages when he wasnt calling or texting you back.
Its probably not what you want to hear but its time to move on, don't waste your precious time on someone who cant be bothered to send you a simple text or to call you for a minute.
He probably is stressed, and is obviously milking it to get an easier break-up. I'm guessing withing the next few days he will text you saying "I'm not ready to be in a relationship at the moment, there is a lot going on. Sorry."
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