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writes:hi to all, i am in a relationship and am currently 4 months pregnant for my boyfriend, i cheated on my boyfriend with this guy before getting pregnant and i broke it off, he than came back and wanted us to continue but i told him i couldn't because i was pregnant and he said he didn't care he just wanted us back we than started seeing each other again we kissed and one day when we almost had sex i stopped him because i felt dirty having sex with another guy while pregnant with another, the next day i decided to break it off again. he said he understood and he wasn't going to overstep his boundaries again but 2 weeks later he came back again saying he cant stay away from him because the sex we had before is amazing and i feel we had great sex to but i am not willing to have a relationship with him since i love my boyfriend and not him but i just enjoy sex with him and want to have sex with him.. please advice.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 hi
sorry but if you think this sort of behaviour qualifies you to still say 'i love my boyfriend' then you're wrong. how would you feel if he was doing the same to you? plus, a man who is happy to keep slithering back to you asking for sex when he knows you are pregnant with another man's child is really not a nice a person is he? i am curious to know what it is about your boyfriend that you 'love'.
my advice: finish with your boyfriend. he deserves better. and then you will be a free to go and have sex with the 2nd guy. there. problem solved.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Sweetie dont go down this path. You are risking everything with your boyfriend you will end up losing him and hurting him really badly. If you love your boyfriend then stop seeing this other guy and concentrate on your relationship and the baby that is growing inside you.
Ok so yeah the sex was good so it is obviously going to be playing on your mind, but why dont you try and turn your thoughts to your boyfriend and think of new ways to spice up your sex life. Experiment with each other and try out new and kinky things that the both of you can enjoy together. Am sure it would kill a little bit of you if you were to find out your boyfriend was out having sex with another woman while you sat at home pregnant. Try and picture how you would feel. Am sure it wouldnt be nice. Therefore dont do it to your boyfriend. You both are going to be parents and am sure the both of you could have a great future and life together. It would be silly to ruin your future as a family for some great sex. Dont risk it just spice things up with your boyfriend.
Goodluck and all the best.
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reader, golddigger99  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 It doesn't sound like you are very committed to the father of your unborn child. This definately is a problem--for him. The issue is that you can NOT truely LOVE someone if you are thinking about someone else. You may feel attached because of the bond you two now share, but it sounds like that is probably the limit of your feelings for him. You should be truthful to the father of your child and let him know what is going on. You owe it to both him and yourself to be happy. A happy you makes for a happy baby.
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